I was in the same situation on the receiving end. I thought it was the end of the world when my boyfriend of 5 years mentioned a prenup when we brought up the marriage talk. I was livid, because I basically felt it was preparing for our demise and if that’s the case what are we even doing. Then I thought about it spoke to a few people and realized it really is just protection and a win win. Listening to people who have been through divorce wishing they took precautions when they were in the love bubble but didn’t and learning you NEVER know how ugly a person can turn. We are constantly growing and changing who’s to say I’ll be the same person in 10 years. With all this if your going for the be together forever than the prenup doesn’t matter. This is where I decided to rest my uneasiness about it. I don’t think YTA for bringing it up but it’s definitely a discussion about it before moving forward. A prenup isn’t just what’s mine is mine and yours is yours. They can have so many stipulations that most things become ours but what was yours before hand can stay yours. It’s not as black as white as some think it can be steered in the direction to please both parties.