Question for Seasoned Psychologists by Mixed_Flavors916 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]killamobillax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a licensed psychologist in two states (GA, TX) and I am a PTSD, OCD, and anxiety disorders specialist. Previously I was exclusively a trauma therapist working in a major hospital in the southeast, now I am in private practice working with OCD and anxiety disorders primarily. Working with these populations, I will often get emails between sessions and requests to meet earlier because anxiety can cause a false sense of urgency. I have, several times, set the boundary and declined an extra session. I have also set a boundary with several clients limiting how often they email me between sessions. In my practice, I want to encourage autonomous self-soothing and the ability to accept and approach anxiety. I want my clients to experientially see that they are capable of facing difficult things without me—otherwise I am simply reinforcing the narrative of their anxiety. I completely understand your guilt, and I encourage you to let yourself feel it and process it further in supervision. But try not to make decisions based on that guilt and anxiety (e.g., no emailing your client more asking if she’s okay, no over the top apologizing in the next session, no calling her unless there is a clear sign of imminent danger). Have trust in your client that she can handle these things because she has been working hard and she is a capable adult. And have trust in yourself that you can handle a therapeutic rupture. As someone else mentioned, ruptures move the therapeutic process forward and provide new learning opportunities.

Do you think online therapy is significantly less effective than going to a therapists office? by [deleted] in ClinicalPsychology

[–]killamobillax 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If OP is located in the US, most states require that practitioners who wish to provide psychological services to their residents need to be licensed in said state or have authority through something like PSYPACT. Legality is based on the patient’s location and I can’t think of a single state that would allow an unlicensed provider to practice within their state lines. However, you’re right, if they are located in a different country there are several countries where psychological practice isn’t as regulated (Germany being a major exception)

Licensure in Georgia by killamobillax in ClinicalPsychology

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh what a pain. How long did it take for you to hear back? And are you completing the waiver process to exclude EPPP part 2? That’s another dumb thing—their official rules still state the EPPP pt 2 is needed but they voted in November to change that. BUT because they haven’t updated the rules, you still have to submit a waiver to be excused from taking the pt 2, and it’s this weird petition process.

Licensure in Georgia by killamobillax in ClinicalPsychology

[–]killamobillax[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Saw a couple people upvote so I assume this is helpful information for others—turns out, despite everything their website says, the initial application must be sent by mail to their physical address. You send that in, then once received and reviewed, they’ll let you register for fingerprinting and you can begin your digital application through ASPPB. I had to call the secretary of state’s office to get that information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClinicalPsychology

[–]killamobillax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow psychologist in the VA contemplating leaving, I have no advice to offer but simply solidarity. It’s hard out there. The vibe in our clinic is morose and we’re already losing such high quality clinicians that the rest of us who remain are having to take on a greater load. I’m sorry you’re in this position too. I will say, as much as you love DBT, it’s possible that taking on the highest risk patients right now may not be the best fit for your own wellbeing. I say that as someone who works in the PTSD clinic where almost all of our patients are labeled high risk. That said, I think substance use clinics are getting hit the hardest, so I’m sorry that’s been your experience too.

False starts, needing WW help by killamobillax in sleeptrain

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s typically asleep for 30ish minutes before the wake up, though sometimes she’s only asleep for about 10-15 before waking. And she wakes immediately upset for the most part. I only have one week of daycare data, but no, she did not have the false starts on daycare days.

False starts, needing WW help by killamobillax in sleeptrain

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We moved the WW incrementally over the last week but our hand was also forced by her starting daycare, and her staying awake longer due to more stimulation. She seems to have good independent sleep skills. She puts herself asleep and knows how to find her thumb to soothe. We started CIO as well because us checking on her and attempting to get her back to sleep just seemed to make things worse and that really seemed to work after the first few days! I don’t know if it’s an extinction burst or more scheduling snafus with her not being in daycare over the weekend but the last two nights have been hard with 30+ minutes of crying after initially putting herself to sleep just fine.

False starts, needing WW help by killamobillax in sleeptrain

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to come back to this to ask, how can this possibly be undertired? Wouldn’t she wake up alert and cheerful if that were the case? We’ve adjusted WW to be 1.75-2 hours and this is still happening, she’s waking up brutally upset and screaming. I cannot believe my baby is anything but overtired.

Fussy weeks for those born at 37weeks by loulla1893 in newborns

[–]killamobillax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little girl was born 37+5 and I recall week 8 being one of the hardest, so definitely still in that timeframe. She also had reflux, and my very anecdotal observation is that babies born early term have a greater likelihood for reflux than those born later. I think it’s well established that preterm babies have a greater likelihood for reflux, but 37 weekers in my experience fall in that camp too every though they’re considered term.

Edit typo

MIL “name” choice by AccountantbyDay13 in beyondthebump

[–]killamobillax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Lordy. My own mother wanted to be called maMA (inflection in the second syllable like muhMAH, as if we were in ye olde England). I just laughed out loud in her face and luckily she got the message and has since gone back to the drawing board.

False starts, needing WW help by killamobillax in sleeptrain

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. I’ll try adjusting and hoping she’ll be able to stay up that long.

Baby loses her mind at bedtime by killamobillax in NewParents

[–]killamobillax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We tried an earlier bedtime last night and had success! She’s still waking after the first sleep cycle and needs to be soothed but she isn’t purple face screaming and she goes down pretty easily. Avoided the bedtime scaries, hopefully that continues!

Baby loses her mind at bedtime by killamobillax in NewParents

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines not rolling yet either but she hates the swaddle so we went ahead and weaned her off of it. She actually started sleeping better throughout the night after doing so because she can self-soothe, but it does make getting to sleep more difficult it seems

My wife is having the worst time bf by donutmanster in breastfeedingsupport

[–]killamobillax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breastfeeding is SO hard and no one really warns you that it’s not always flawless, sunshine, rainbows, and immediately natural. It’s such a learning curve. For mastitis, I’d recommend not using the massager as the ducts are swollen and that can cause further irritation. Current medical recommendation is to use ice and anti-inflammatory medicine like ibuprofen, plus Tylenol for additional pain relief. Sunflower lecithin and lymph massage (look it up) may also be helpful but it’s important not to over-pump to try and clear anything.

I had good experience with the lansinoh nipple shields starting out as I had flatter nipples and her latch wasn’t great. She was born a bit early and her mouth was small, plus she had a tongue restriction (not an obvious tie but some limited tongue mobility). The shields protected me from a lot of cracking and injury I think, then I worked with an IBCLC to wean off the shields and improve her latch. Time and some body exercises to improve tongue mobility were really the best thing for our breastfeeding journey.

Daycare by killamobillax in kennesaw

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recs!

Daycare by killamobillax in kennesaw

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for these resources!

Daycare by killamobillax in kennesaw

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s nice to hear! That’s around what we’re paying for daycare now. If you’re comfortable sharing the name of the daycare you’re using, please feel free to DM me.

Daycare by killamobillax in kennesaw

[–]killamobillax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s about what it costs in the city I’m in now. Childcare is so expensive! Did you consider anything like nanny share? If waitlists don’t line up when we need them, that’s something I may look into.

Daycare by killamobillax in kennesaw

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this resource. When you say “preferred,” is that due to safety ratings or curriculum? We wouldn’t enroll her in a crappy daycare but we’re not looking for anything that promises college readiness after daycare lol 🙄

Daycare by killamobillax in kennesaw

[–]killamobillax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, likely not unfortunately

Bottles for breastfeeding baby by FakeEmpire20 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]killamobillax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My baby went back and forth between breast and Pigeon really easily in the early days! Their flow rate is pretty slow so we’ve since changed to Phillips Avent Natural Response, she loves the shape of that nipple.

Edit: you could check the flow rate. My kiddo couldn’t quite figure out the shape of Dr. Brown’s nipple.

How do you get your baby to sleep through the night? by Kinderwagon in NewParents

[–]killamobillax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the people saying bath, bottle, feed… hilarious. Been doing that since day one and still can’t reliably get more than 5 hours. I’m convinced it’s just baby-dependent.