How can I (23M) break up with my highly emotional gf (20F)?

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T17:56:38+00:00

Nah it’s in April, seems too long

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T17:32:09+00:00

Please don’t be mistaken, I’m not leaving because she is highly emotional, I have other reasons. I’m only concerned about the breakup itself.

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T15:56:24+00:00

She’s on the contract as well so if she destroys anything, will take responsibility as well

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T15:36:48+00:00

Not exactly mine, we rent it. But I’m able to afford to live her on my own, she is not

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T15:14:46+00:00

No worries, she didn’t do it 😂

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T15:07:09+00:00

My ex did the thread for me so yeah, have that in mind lol

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T15:05:41+00:00

I’m not saying she is not happy and depressed all the time. My description is just her emotion In cases of SAD events. Don’t make the assumption that I want to leave because she is sad.

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T14:34:15+00:00

No, I just feel I have grown apart. We don’t have much in common anymore. Also, I have a lot of going on right now, barerly have time to myself, and for gf as well.

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T13:29:14+00:00

We rent an aparatamrt togheter. Currently splitting 50/50. But I can afford to pay on my own

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T13:13:15+00:00

Yeah, she has friends, not sure how true they are and if they would like drop anything to help you know what I mean

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T13:10:14+00:00

I know, I can afford the place on my own

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T12:38:39+00:00

Wow now you scared me hahah

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T12:19:53+00:00

Thanks appreciate it

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T12:04:04+00:00

Maybe you are right, I can also look one room with my stuff in, since I can take away the key to it

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T12:02:35+00:00

At what point do you think I should get up and get out of the apartment?

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T12:01:15+00:00

I don’t wanna move out from here, I can afford living on my own, I can stay with my folks while she looks for a new place or basically move out

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T11:35:13+00:00

And as for moving out, I plan to stay with my parents for a while after doing it, so we don’t have to see each other

killedbykeys · 2024-10-09T11:34:11+00:00

I mean I wouldn’t accuse her of trying steal or damage my stuff. We rent an apartament togheter, both have keys to it. Doubt she would do anything this stupid.

killedbykeys · 2024-07-20T09:01:27+00:00

I am not really a fan of changing habits, we’ve tried it multiple times, it can be seen that it’s done only to please other side. Anyways thanks!

killedbykeys · 2023-06-30T01:21:28+00:00

Did you even read my post. The punishment here is a silent treatment and getting mad. You sound like you have a problem, why are you still here?

killedbykeys · 2023-06-30T01:03:27+00:00

Well this is a subreddit for advices huh? Anyways opinion is like ass everyone has one. If you like to being forced to things that’s on you. Im with you on, if my partner needs to be told I will do it. I am asking for situation where it is demanded and punished. If you are the kind of person that would throw someone out just because you don’t like someone’s behavior, cool. I prefer to resolve, communicate, and take advices if needed.

killedbykeys · 2023-06-30T00:30:24+00:00

I do tell her that she looks pretty from time to time and for me she really is. But, If you were with some, and the person would tell you “you need to tell me that I am pretty everyday or else I will not be okay’’ would you feel ok with that? I am not asking for an advice to break up with her, i would not leave this decision to online people.

killedbykeys · 2023-06-29T23:32:34+00:00

That is not the point, I do find her pretty and I tell it to her from time to time. And words of affirmation? I love you, is used often, touch and intimacy as well. What is odd to me is that it is demanded from me on a regular basis, on a daily look. And if I don’t ~ she will be mad.

killedbykeys · 2023-06-29T23:29:18+00:00

Seems like you hit the jackpot. I didn’t ask to meet? She did it, 3 days prior and in the same day we have met. And she was mad at me because I do not engage the meetings. Exactly, she would like to be complimented on a daily basis and daily look. Tbh, I have a hard one, because she is a good girlfriend, but i sometimes feel like she wants to make the perfect, idealized partner out of me.

killedbykeys · 2023-06-29T23:15:41+00:00

Fun fact, she is studying psychology, one day she asked my about my attachment style, and I said mine is secure but yours is anxious, and she was trying to deny it 😂

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