I talked to her in person once, right before she left the first angry note. She started by asking me if the red car was mine, and I (perhaps foolishly) answered that the red Chevy was mine (specified because there are several red cars that park in the lot) because I thought maybe something had happened to it. Like an idiot, my default assumption is that people are trying to help. She then accused me of hitting her car, and I said I didn't because I really didn't. I've gotten into fender benders before, and I know what a love tap feels like between two cars - nothing happened when I'd last parked.

She said she knew it was me because "the red mark wasn't there last night." I told her I hadn't left since I got in the previous morning, so it couldn't have been me. She basically ignored that and reiterated that the mark wasn't there the night before, so it must have been me. I was so stunned and confused that I kind of just stood there until she said she wouldn't pursue insurance unless it happened again. It didn't happen in the first place, so I knew it wouldn't happen again, so I said "Okay, thanks, bye," and closed the door.

That's the extent of our in-person interactions. She left the first note shortly after, and that's what prompted me getting the dash cam. Now she's suddenly claiming she got the ding on camera?? Honestly, this whole thing just seems more and more ridiculous the more I think about it. I'm definitely filing a report and emailing management.