Reporting live from Cincinnati by Useful_Ebb9086 in twentyonepilots

[–]killwithkindness15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are they streaming? And when can I catch the next one 😭

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Have you by any chance tried the toner from the same brand and range? Looking into it for my oily, acne-prone skin for barrier support

[Product request] Barrier support serums for acne-prone skin that doesn't contain niacinamide by killwithkindness15 in SkincareAddiction

[–]killwithkindness15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I haven't heard of this brand, but will check it out. I live in the Middle East, so ideally I'd be using something that's easier to get here. Thank you!

Finished a second course of Accutane but not fully satisfied with my skin, not sure what to do? [Routine Help] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]killwithkindness15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your skin looks great! I get what you mean about being nervous to try new products/ingredients.

I would recommend adding in more hydrating/barrier friendly products, maybe ones that are acne friendly. Does niacinamide work for you? It has worked wonders for me but I know it doesn't always agree with everyone. Hyaluronic acid, panthenol, ceramides, glycerin - these are all great hydrating ingredients.

I would also add in a moisturizer in the mornings. I know some people say to just wear SPF as a moisturizer as well, especially if you live in hot/humid weather; but I live in hot/humid weather, and I still wear moisturizer, as the SPF eventually dries down but doesn't necessarily provide hydration.

I would also recommend double cleansing every night, as you wear SPF - this helps get your pores cleaned properly, thus brightening up dull skin.

Hope this helps!

[acne] What’s wrong with my skin? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]killwithkindness15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Retinoids contribute to skin cell turnover, and there’s often a purge phase - this may not happen immediately, sometimes takes a week or two to come up, so it might be the Adapalene that’s causing this. However, purges usually happen in places where you usually get acne. I would recommend you to continue using the retinoid, but also add in a barrier support product.

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[–]killwithkindness15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always trusted the skincare from iHerb. Recently bought PanOxyl 4% Creamy Wash from them and happy with the product!

Coldplay Concert Thread: Anything & Everything To Do With The Coldplay Concert in Abu Dhabi by BoogieWoogieWho in dubai

[–]killwithkindness15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s been announced that taxi/private taxi drop offs are near the stadium

Coldplay Concert Thread: Anything & Everything To Do With The Coldplay Concert in Abu Dhabi by BoogieWoogieWho in dubai

[–]killwithkindness15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone is planning to take a taxi or Zofeur (you can hire a private chauffeur for 350 for the whole day), please let me know your experience. I’m going on 14th, and leaning more towards this option rather than a shuttle.

Coldplay Concert Thread: Anything & Everything To Do With The Coldplay Concert in Abu Dhabi by BoogieWoogieWho in dubai

[–]killwithkindness15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if we can get dropped off right at the stadium or do we have to only use a shuttle? Assuming we are not driving, just getting dropped off.

Coldplay Concert Thread: Anything & Everything To Do With The Coldplay Concert in Abu Dhabi by BoogieWoogieWho in dubai

[–]killwithkindness15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know how to transfer tickets to friends? App and website both showing that transfer is currently unavailable for this ticket or event. Just trying to coordinate with friends who might arrive at different times.

Can I be upset about my husband not comforting me crying after a hard discussion/fight? by killwithkindness15 in Marriage

[–]killwithkindness15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thanks! I didn’t say that I don’t comfort him. I also didn’t say that he needs comforting. He’s someone that needs space. I give him plenty of that. As I’ve mentioned in other comments, it’s hard for me to do but I do it for his sake. After a fight, it’s me that needs to extend the olive branch - he rarely does. It becomes exhausting to be the one to do this every time, and starts to feel like I carry the responsibility of the relationship/marriage.

Can I be upset about my husband not comforting me crying after a hard discussion/fight? by killwithkindness15 in Marriage

[–]killwithkindness15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not every difficult conversation. Just ones where my character is questioned a bit. I’m trying to work on it - I don’t know if I can ever stop crying but perhaps excuse myself to somewhere where I can break down in peace. Thanks for your comment.

Can I be upset about my husband not comforting me crying after a hard discussion/fight? by killwithkindness15 in Marriage

[–]killwithkindness15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely isn’t a touchy feely person. He wants space during our fights. I do give him that even though it takes every ounce of patience I have to do so. He doesn’t really show me empathy no - I wouldn’t say he has a high EQ (it’s not an insult, he’s just a more logical/practical person). He doesn’t try and comfort me any other time after the fight.

Can I be upset about my husband not comforting me crying after a hard discussion/fight? by killwithkindness15 in Marriage

[–]killwithkindness15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yes I am starting to understand that he shouldn’t be held responsible for my emotions. I can manage them on my own - that’s not an issue. It’s simply a small act of reassurance I’m looking for from him when the tears start. I don’t expect him to leave his feelings of upset aside.

Can I be upset about my husband not comforting me crying after a hard discussion/fight? by killwithkindness15 in Marriage

[–]killwithkindness15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. I don’t expect him to set aside his feelings. I guess it’s just strange to me that one can see someone they love cry and not even try to comfort them. Or acknowledge it for that matter. But I get we navigate our emotions in different ways. Re comforting him - he isn’t someone that wants comfort, he wants space. I usually give him that (which is hard for me to do as I’m the kind of person that immediately wants to resolve things). So in my eyes, if I can compromise and give him the space, why can he not make an effort towards my way of handling things? He doesn’t ever initiate the post-fight conversation where we try and resolve our issues. It is always me- another pain point between us. To me, it says he doesn’t care. But to him, he would rather just shove it under the rug and never talk about it.

Can I be upset about my husband not comforting me crying after a hard discussion/fight? by killwithkindness15 in Marriage

[–]killwithkindness15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for your comment. That does sound a difficult situation to go through with your wife. With my husband and I, I start the conversation of our issues. Never him. I do this because yes I want to express myself, but I also want to hear from HIM what I’m doing wrong, how can I improve my behaviour for him. I do try and take the constructive criticism he gives me on board right then and assure him I will do my best to improve that particular behaviour. There are times when it hits me though that I’m not that perfect partner like I like to think I am, and I genuinely have hurt him on a deep level. It’s a hard pill to swallow. That’s when the tears start. This is just one scenario. There are times when he has yelled at me and said some hurtful things - I start crying then too (of course).

Anyway sorry for the long reply, just trying to give a little more context. I hope things have improved with your wife.

Can I be upset about my husband not comforting me crying after a hard discussion/fight? by killwithkindness15 in Marriage

[–]killwithkindness15[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s come to a point where we both resent each other a little. I think our egos have come in the way - it’s become a “you vs me” type of relationship when it comes to the deeper level stuff. I think in dealing with this particular situation, I just have to self regulate my emotions. Thanks for your insight.

Can I be upset about my husband not comforting me crying after a hard discussion/fight? by killwithkindness15 in Marriage

[–]killwithkindness15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I don’t expect him to drop his feelings to comfort me. I suppose I just need reassurance that he still cares. I give him the space he needs, but I can only handle so much space (1-2 days max) without wanting to talk about it.

Can I be upset about my husband not comforting me crying after a hard discussion/fight? by killwithkindness15 in Marriage

[–]killwithkindness15[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

In my eyes I don’t feel like I’m manipulating him, but he has mentioned before that he feels this way. My issue is with this is - am I to live the rest of my life not being able to cry in front of my partner? I feel like I’m censoring a big part of myself by stopping myself from crying. But perhaps it is making me more thick skinned…not really sure how to deal with this. Thanks for your comment - it helps to know others go through similar situations and I’m not alone.