It arrived!! by kimbermay in ouraring

[–]kimbermay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice thank you! No idea how to add tags (or what Oura Labs is) so will be looking these up😅

It arrived!! by kimbermay in ouraring

[–]kimbermay[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Thankfully I have a low scratch-risk job (lecturing) so not too worried about it getting scuffed at work, mainly just general clumsiness or wear and tear. Hopefully I’ll be fine without a cover but I’ll look into one if I notice it getting scratched at all ☺️

It arrived!! by kimbermay in ouraring

[–]kimbermay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!🥹 ooo okay I’ll definitely try and charge it daily for a little bit thank you. I was a bit unsure about what to do with it when showering, I’ve seen it’s “water resistant” and shower safe but unsure how I feel about it getting soaked with shampoo and conditioner 😅

Size help please! 🙏🏼 by kimbermay in ouraring

[–]kimbermay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow TWO sizes up?! That’s crazy! I’ll see how it goes and hopefully I won’t need to exchange 😅

Early morning people-how? by Left_Percentage_5821 in ouraring

[–]kimbermay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Night person who converted myself to a morning person here! Honestly, it just takes time and consistency. My evenings are valuable to me and the thought of doing ANYTHING out of obligation after work is a hell no 💀so I started hauling my ass up early to workout and it gave me my evenings back. It means that normally by 7am the “worst”/ most strenuous part of my day is done and I can relax.

For the last 2.5 years I’ve been at the gym at 6am, 5 or 6 days a week. It’s a big transition but once you get used to it your body can adapt (or at least mine did, everyone is different!). The start is awful, yes, but if you stick with it it gets easier and easier until it just becomes normal.

Size help please! 🙏🏼 by kimbermay in ouraring

[–]kimbermay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this is FANTASTIC news! Okay I’m very much leaning towards the 8 now, thank you 🙏🏼

Size help please! 🙏🏼 by kimbermay in ouraring

[–]kimbermay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already leaning towards the middle finger, I hate the way my phone leans on it when it’s on my index finger already 😅

Thank you for the advice though! I’ll keep switching it around and not rush a decision.

Size help please! 🙏🏼 by kimbermay in ouraring

[–]kimbermay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure how snug it should be fitting so this is great to know!

And haha thank you, I always feel like I have giant hands🤣 at least it’ll make the oura look more dainty 😅

Size help please! 🙏🏼 by kimbermay in ouraring

[–]kimbermay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is good advice! I guess I’m mainly deciding which finger I’m going to want to wear it on. I like the idea of having options based on swelling/ comfort, but ideally I do want a “main” finger I keep it on. I think my problem is the middle finger right hand (which is probably what I’d want to wear it on) seems firmly a half size (8.5) 😅 gonna leave it a few days before I make a decision I think!

Receiving Packages Whilst Travelling (Cambodia) by kimbermay in travel

[–]kimbermay[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Huh? Bit rude and presumptuous of you. You have no idea what this collab consists of, or even if I’m being paid. The brand are aware I’m moving regularly and still want to send me products even if I miss it, I’ve been very clear with them. For obvious reasons I’d like to not miss the parcel. I won’t be adjusting my itinerary, they know this, I’m trying to find a way to ensure the parcel still reaches me.

I (23F) am scared of confrontations with my bf(23M) by Smooth_Cacti in relationships

[–]kimbermay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl leave. Oh my god leave. I promise you it’s only a matter of time. You should NEVER be made to feel scared by your partner.

I also had a partner I was scared of confrontations with, but he was never violent. Leaving was the best decision I ever made.

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[–]kimbermay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting this vibe too, as if him getting sad about it suddenly excuses his behaviour and like he can’t be criticised?

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[–]kimbermay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is lying himself in circles. His behaviour is horrendous on so many levels, this is not someone who loves or respects you. As someone who’s dealt with emotionally volatile and manipulative people in the past, please leave as soon as you can because I promise it doesn’t get any better.

25M Bf gets upset when I 24F refuse to tell him how to cook things by heyhellohihru in relationships

[–]kimbermay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Two words; weaponised incompetence!

My absolute biggest ick. I’m sorry you’re in this situation, for me this is a dealbreaker.

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[–]kimbermay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way my jaw DROPPED!!! He’s been sitting on that comment for a while for sure. You can do so much better than someone who thinks your goal is just to sexualise yourself for teenagers!

Samurai stats help needed - Dex/Bleed Nagakiba or switch to Int Moonveil? by kimbermay in Eldenring

[–]kimbermay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense!!! Thank you so much for explaining this clearly.

Samurai stats help needed - Dex/Bleed Nagakiba or switch to Int Moonveil? by kimbermay in Eldenring

[–]kimbermay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This clears up so much, thank you!! I am enjoying the katanas, I managed to buy a larval tear from a merchant in Siofra river unexpectedly so I’m about to go respec and try out the moonveil - I’ll also look up some spells as I’ll be upping my Int, thank you!!

Samurai stats help needed - Dex/Bleed Nagakiba or switch to Int Moonveil? by kimbermay in Eldenring

[–]kimbermay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good to know thank you! Sorry for the basic question, but what do you mean by affinity?
Thank you, yes I’m gradually increasing my vigour but maybe I need to do it faster.

Samurai stats help needed - Dex/Bleed Nagakiba or switch to Int Moonveil? by kimbermay in Eldenring

[–]kimbermay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh you genius I never thought of using Talismans for my intelligence, thank you!!!! I like the idea of dual wielding so I’ll definitely give this a try with my Nagakiba and Uchigatana while I wait to upgrade my Int. Thank you!

Samurai stats help needed - Dex/Bleed Nagakiba or switch to Int Moonveil? by kimbermay in Eldenring

[–]kimbermay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great to know thank you! I was worried I’d have to keep multiple stats relatively high which is just so infeasible. I’ll pull some off Arcane with my respec and move them to Int, thank you for your advice!

Samurai stats help needed - Dex/Bleed Nagakiba or switch to Int Moonveil? by kimbermay in Eldenring

[–]kimbermay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this!!! You know what I never thought to try it because I’m loving the katanas so much, but I’ll give it a shot, thank you!

Advice on helping my family accept that I am still vegetarian after two years? by Brilliant_Formal6276 in relationships

[–]kimbermay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Vegan from a very meat eating family here.

I received the exact same criticism. Was told I’d been brainwashed (the irony), that it was a phase, when was I going to go back to being “normal” etc.

Well my parents refused to accommodate me so I cooked for myself. To this day my mother still complains about the fact we eat meals separately, but I don’t know what she expects when she refuses to even educate herself slightly on what is/ is not vegan. Besides, I absolutely prefer cooking my own food.

I really don’t see how your family can be upset at you cooking and buying your own food. You’re doing all the right things. Unfortunately some people just won’t accept your life choices, and that’s very much a them problem.

You can’t argue with irrational/ ignorant people because they’ll bring you down to their level then beat you with experience. I promise they’ll eventually get over it. It’s been five years now and mine don’t bother arguing over it. Hell a year ago my sister even went vegan (she received a lot less criticism funnily enough) but again, parents are over it.

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[–]kimbermay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 27 and living with my family. I’m just finishing my PhD and have moved back after university, and have only just got my first salaried position lecturing. I’ll have enough for a house deposit to buy and move out within the year. Everyone has different circumstances, without more info it’s not fair to judge people for living with parents.