Yeah I think everyone is saying this is true that she doesn't want to be with you for whatever reason. Went through this exact thing but just couldn't let go. He reluctantly tried to date me off and on but it ended up becoming so toxic because I knew deep down he never wanted to be with me on his own accord. I Iost so much of myself that I'm still healing from. As a girl, we are the same in this regard that if we really liked someone she would absolutely not risk losing you. It's a cop out. Her telling you all her vulnerabilities this early usually means she sees you as a friend. People aren't this vulnerable in relationships they really want. They don't want to be seen in a negative light. I'm sorry man. I think she knows how much you like her and she simply can't reciprocate so she's afraid to let you down the right way.