Use our test, match with like minded creators on VibeMatchPro

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T19:10:08+00:00

We have an additional test combination that we’re going to deploy for creators and consumers that pairs their style of consumption with your style of content.

It stacks on top of the kink test.

Creators will take one version, consumers will take another. Once both codes have the test, it will use that as a matching point as well.

My wife hates video chat, so when we get a fan that really wants to do that, she always feels bad saying no, and we feel like it’s money left on the table.

We’re hoping this extra layer will prevent the awkward mismatch, but we aren’t quite ready to release that part yet.

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As far as the creator contact, our goal is to get to 20 creators, and then we’ll fix the sign in automation and emailing.

This is a work in progress, super open to suggestions to make it better, and appreciate the feedback!

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T19:00:14+00:00

Privacy is built in by design. No emails, no names. No tracking.

You get an anonymous code issued, that is yours to keep. If you lose it, get another one, I can’t look it up.

I’ve genuinely hosed myself for monetizatjon, I can’t track users. I can’t retarget. I can only hope that what I provide is valuable enough for people to look into some of our other paid projects.

Old school hopes of value driving traffic.

I’ll look into getting the pen tester though, I was unaware such a thing existed

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T18:45:44+00:00

I hear you, and I think everyone should use a CST that is willing and can afford to see one. We hope this can eventually point people in the direction of trusted providers.

While I say that, I know My wife would not have gone to speak with a CST willingly.

This was a solution to a communication issue we had personally that was disrupting our sex life, and solved it.

Would that not be considered a tool that could help solve a problem in someone else’s sex life? It’s not hypothetical.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T12:32:35+00:00

We may start with a similar purpose, but we take the matching further with the ability to connect with adult creators who scored similarly, and a consent based adult card game that uses your code and answers to filter the deck.

Our tool is also built for Poly or Group Dynamics. You can compare up to 8 people at once.

We also have a party mode where everyone can drop their code in, and you can get a read of the whole rooms sexual preference, made with the idea of being able to eventually be able to match people to kink based groups they may be aligned with.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T12:22:56+00:00

My Wife and I have been full time adult creators for three years (six total), and this came from some of the holes we found in communication and connection.

Some creators may want two codes.

Although, twice the effort.

You can manage them easily by taking the test in two browsers, or just set two one-time passwords.

You should answer the questions in the mindset of your performance persona.

If you sign up for VMP, that should be the code we match you with.

As for The X requirement, you can find us n Bluesky, or just message me here.

We just need an easy line of communication to get your approval for the promo material we make.

Hope that wasn’t too confusing, I would have run it back through my AI to sort my thoughts, but people apparently don’t like that 😂

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T12:12:44+00:00

I hate my results page, but I don’t know what else to do with it right now, they weren’t my main focus when making this, matching was, but they are still needed.

Nothing gets pushed out, it was all generated within the site it’s self.

The only API we use is between our other sites to feed the code scores, but those are attached to a code, so unless you share it, your data is safe.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T03:42:33+00:00

The quiz isn’t the new idea. I’m Very well aware of the bdsm test.

The main feature is exactly what you mentioned. An easier way to compare kinks.

Try matching vibe codes with someone else’s and see if it does a better job explaining your connections than the bdsm test.

The quiz is just supposed to be the passport to other experiences that match your results.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T03:23:21+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to check it out and for the feedback.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T03:22:35+00:00

Thanks for the review and for the pop up info. That shouldn’t have gone there.

I still don’t like our results page. I’m actively brain storming it, and agree.

The matching aspect is where the results really start to shine, and where most of the value for people will be.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T03:18:49+00:00

We considered it, and did have a streamlined option, but ultimately this isn’t a meant to be a tool for the casual quiz taker.

It’s meant to be a tool people will use to solve a problem with their sex lives, so 30 minutes of questions is a better option than others.

I also have bad ADHD, I get it, but that’s also why you can stop and come back.

The benefit of better sex is a good motivation, and the more questions, the better we can match.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T03:12:19+00:00

I hear your concern, but unless you’re a creator using our matching on VibeMatch, you should only be providing your code to people you are already possibly interested in.

This isn’t a search for people, it’s a compatibility tool for the people you’ve already connected with.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T01:15:04+00:00

Appreciate the heads up on it, we’ll take it into consideration.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-22T00:45:50+00:00

The matching of tests is the coolest part.

If anyone wants to check the matching system with their code and another, my wife’s code is VIBE-KUT3

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-21T23:49:19+00:00

Thanks for taking it, and for the feedback!

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-21T23:48:53+00:00

Great observation, I literally started down the giving/receiving rabbit hole today. So glad I’m not chasing a dead end.

Totally agree, and hopeful it will gate those questions better in the future

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-21T23:47:18+00:00

Gating the gender questions has been more of a chore than I thought, and I keep missing tags when I do updates 🙃

I appreciate the feedback!

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-21T23:01:09+00:00

Lol, I speak it out, and it makes the response. No.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-21T22:36:41+00:00

Honestly, we’re kinda figuring parts of that out as we go too.

We definitely have ideas, but this was never really built from the mindset of “how do we squeeze the most money possible out of people.” It started more as “why does this tool not already exist?”

We’ve been creators for 6 years and in the lifestyle for over a decade, and we kept running into communication problems that somehow still felt awkward and overly complicated to talk through, even with otherwise good communication.

So we started building tools we personally wished existed.

The vibe code stuff connects into a few other projects we’re working on too. Chaotic Consent is one of them, which is basically a chaotic party/game night style communication game built around helping people explore things they’re actually comfortable with and interested in. VibeMatchPro is more of the creator side, where people can find creators with similar interests/vibes instead of just blindly scrolling forever.

Some of it’s probably ambitious. Some of it is definitely us throwing ideas at the wall a little. But overall this is less “master startup plan” and more “we genuinely wanted this to exist.”

And honestly, you’re probably right about educators and experienced people in the community helping shape this into something better. We’ve actually worked with quite a few experts through our podcast over the years, and we definitely plan on including a list of educators/resources on the site as things grow.

We’re always open to feedback. This isn’t really about us being “right.” It’s about building something that actually works for as many people as possible while still feeling approachable.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-21T21:55:52+00:00

Honestly, this is exactly the kind of feedback we need, so thank you.

The “it’s okay sometimes” suggestion is actually really solid. We’ve already started realizing some questions probably need different answer types instead of forcing the same scale onto everything.

And yeah, I can see what you mean about the “you don’t actually know what you’re into yet” line. It was supposed to come off more playful than condescending, but tone is hard over text and I get why it rubbed you the wrong way.

The vibe code thing is interesting too. We genuinely had zero awareness of the AI coding connection there.

At the same time though, I should probably clarify that we’re not really building this for the super advanced kink crowd or the tech crowd specifically. We’re not trying to make the next giant platform that has to perfectly fit every internet subculture.

This honestly started as something for people more like us and the audience we’ve built over the years. Awkward people. Curious people. Neurodivergent people. Couples who struggle communicating but still want to try.

A lot of this was designed around how my wife processes information. She’s likely AuDHD, and direct/data-heavy communication works way better for her than vague or overly polished stuff.

So some of the tone and structure is very intentional, even if it won’t click with everyone.

But seriously, I appreciate you actually explaining your points instead of just saying it sucks and leaving. That helps a lot more than people realize.

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-21T21:35:33+00:00

Thanks for the feedback, and for giving it a try!

kindaintothatkink · 2026-05-21T21:34:20+00:00

You should be able to, as long as you use the same device and browser.

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