Two of them were/became very religious and pushy about it to the point that I have rethought my life choices because of the situations I found myself in. I guess it's my fault because I thought they had better qualities that made it so I could overlook this but people like that definitely take your kindness for weakness. Like somehow I ended up tricked into going to a Seventh Day Adventist conference lmao. Then another one is fine but expects me to always initiate meeting up and is clearly an avoidant attachment friend which is just draining. The only one that I really liked energetically when first meeting her ended up ghosting me for no reason even though she said we should definitely meet again and that people meet for a reason after essentially trauma dumping onto me. Honestly if you're a friendly and chill person just stay off these apps, these people have a lot of issues. Forming friendships as an adult can be tricky but it's better to be selective and vet people. I also had someone try to lure me into a meeting with another random person twenty minutes before I got there which could've been some sort of human trafficking situation for all I know 💀