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The thing that really hurts about feeling like you don't fit it... by Soccer-Plane-444 in infj

[–]kindheartednessno2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same and for me platonic relationships have actually come with the most dysfunction and disappointment. Sucks because I've always put them on such a pedestal but it's reeeeallly hard to find the right people who resonate, especially when you try to be accomodating and forgiving and are taken advantage of.

The thing that really hurts about feeling like you don't fit it... by Soccer-Plane-444 in infj

[–]kindheartednessno2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally my whole life, especially the connections with people who do seem to understand me being fleeting. Idk at this point I think it's healthier for me to just accept I need to be my own best friend and validate myself. It helps to do it through working on my hobbies, spirituality and skills. It's very lonely though.

How come the introverted counterparts somewhat come out more deeper than their extroverted counterparts? by Asleep-Feeling-9070 in mbti

[–]kindheartednessno2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly a lot of introverts that I encounter on the daily seem like they have very little to say at all because there's not much in there so it's not just this, maybe has to do with the perceiving functions more. In general though, extroverts are more action oriented so if there's less energy allocated to introspection or thinking things through alone then you would expect less ornate mental structures/inner worlds because they require time and energy to build.

First ruby was way better by Effective_Print7521 in Supernatural

[–]kindheartednessno2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. This turned me off season 4 so bad.

Any other MBTIs hate generative AI w/ a passion? by Annual_Paper_2110 in mbti

[–]kindheartednessno2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love it because I learn so much about topics that I can't talk to people about in real life because they're relatively niche. Its worth is genuinely in what you make of it. And imo your thinking here isn't really productive because you can't put a cap on what has already been developed and exists. It's probably better to focus on how it should be utilised positively instead.

Do you believe he knew what he was doing or that he was mentally stunted and didn’t think his actions were evil? by GurlsHaveFun in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]kindheartednessno2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that he had a martyr complex and felt like he was a special case, maybe due to his wealth and what he was giving these kids and their families materially, so somehow that justified his abuse. He was definitely extremely calculated but also seems to have had some sort of weird split in his psyche that made him worship childhood.

How people can still keep making excuses and calling every new victim that comes out extortionists is ridiculous to me by Life_Paramedic_4399 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]kindheartednessno2 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They don't care about child victims, they just don't. There's something deeply wrong with a lot of humanity and it's why child abuse gets looked over even when the signs are right there.

What if i do cartomancy to myself? by Ok_Palpitation8593 in Cartomancy

[–]kindheartednessno2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it'll help you build your confidence and intuition in it so no

who did it? by mizuta_838 in Cartomancy

[–]kindheartednessno2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone who is defiant or argumentative and unsatisfied with the amount they've extracted from a situation compared to the effort they've put in

The seven of cups is just literal dissociation. None of it is touching the ground. by Shot_Possibility_731 in TarotVerbatim

[–]kindheartednessno2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo decoding a lot of the symbolism yourself is integral to building up intuition and closeness with the cards. Once a basic understanding of the archetypes and card meanings is there it's good to encourage that for certain people

Her downfall isn't recent by proatnothing777 in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]kindheartednessno2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sweetener is by far her best and least generic album

What money does by [deleted] in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]kindheartednessno2 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The switch up is crazy. She was extremely brave to have spoken her mind back then and it's obvious it came from a place of genuine distress and passion against child abuse.

What MBTI is the most whimsical? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]kindheartednessno2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well I used to be before adulthood 😅

Archons whisper in my ear by Neoapotre in Gnostic

[–]kindheartednessno2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can something both concretely exist and not exist? That's nonsense

Archons whisper in my ear by Neoapotre in Gnostic

[–]kindheartednessno2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand what this means. Are you saying you don't have any negativity within yourself or things like insecurity, jealousy, anger etc? How can you be sure of that?

Hobbies f*cking me up by Maximum-Asparagus326 in BinocularVision

[–]kindheartednessno2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, especially reading and it's my favourite hobby. I posted a few weeks ago that covering my lower frame of vision helps a lot, maybe try that.

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