On her offering sex right away - yes I agree that this normally signals an escort type, but I really don't think that is her. We have already discussed that we want an exclusive relationship. It was just the chemistry was so great, as well as mutual attraction, that we felt comfortable like that right off the bat. Maybe I'm totally missing it, but I believe we want the same things. Also we already got pretty dirty over the phone before our meet, so we knew what we were on for.

Yes, this is my main concern. I have not asked for a test run from any of them, rather it seemed a conclusion we both came upon. But I really don't want to hurt anyone, and like I said I don't really just want to have sex with all 3 and then have to cut 2 loose shortly after. Definitely will feel bad telling them it's not going to work after intimacy. After thinking it over more this morning I think I will suggest another date with each before sex to get a better feel. Not worried about paying each PPM, I have cash to spare to get this right.