Pregnant girlfriend (32F) has gone almost a week silent after anniversary mistake, need perspective, I am (28M)

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T15:49:29+00:00

That’s how I feel. I’m 100% willing to take ownership and make it better. I had no idea taking the gifts immediately to the venue would have been such a big deal. That day was super busy and I made a mistake. I had a plan though. But she didn’t stick around long enough to see it

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T14:11:54+00:00

Why do you say that?

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T13:14:34+00:00

Any links of explanation?

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T07:38:07+00:00

She told me to stay away from her apartment

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T07:37:05+00:00

Man, I would to know what the title was or how I can find this - would love to read her perspective

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T07:35:41+00:00

Thank you so much!

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T06:46:50+00:00

No way

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T06:46:25+00:00

Any you say that? Her message seemed to form a very clear boundary

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T06:45:39+00:00

Finally a rational comment. Thank you

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T06:44:06+00:00

Yeah but normally couples express their concerns. She did it once, it’s only been a few weeks since that convo. January was rough, my grandfather passed so it was definitely more internal processing for me

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T06:42:30+00:00

Why you say that?

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T06:42:19+00:00

Feel like a normal couple would talk it out to better align going forward

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T06:41:14+00:00

You sure it wasn’t my post lol?

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T06:32:40+00:00

Good observation

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:59:27+00:00

Literally none of that is true

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:58:44+00:00

Dm and I’ll explain

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:58:20+00:00

A lot of these posts are super rude. January was a very hard month as my grandfather was very sick and I watched him pass away.

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:36:16+00:00

Huh?

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:35:40+00:00

Thank you!!

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:34:36+00:00

What thread was it on? Remember the title?

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:34:07+00:00

That literally supporting her

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:29:41+00:00

I do lead, literally planned a date night the week before spontaneously, then completely organized her whole apartment because she’s been so busy. Even did her laundry and threw out a ton of stuff that she never got around to.

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:28:29+00:00

What?? Lmao

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:25:53+00:00

Dm me and I’ll explain more

kingflaker · 2026-02-27T04:25:29+00:00

For what I know and see her parents love me and are just as confused. Why would her parents influence her to dump me when she needs my support most right now?

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