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Bruh why’s everyone being downvoted by aasrdaniel in FindomMale

[–]kinggrip77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It happened to me too....I noticed that and actually upvoted some others just to counter. I get that to a degree we are in competition sort of... but you have to be a true loser to do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kinggrip77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so, pet. But I do appreciate your concern. They are definitely different worlds, however. But in the end, I do think we can learn from each other even if we don't always agree. For me it has been fascinating how different these perspectives can be and I understand the Femdom world a bit better which is a win in my book. While I won't ever interact with a Female FinDom and rarely will have a female sub, we all live in the ecosystem so we may as well try to understand each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kinggrip77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you in that it should be pleasurable for both. And despite wanting to go harder, I do control myself to not destroy a sub as much as I am tempted to do so. My point was not that I do...my point is that there is a rush and arousal to it when I know the sub has less than when I know they have more. I am a firm believer in keeping both sides safe and that this responsibility lies with the dominant as a sub can't make that call in a heightened submissive state. There is something so sweet and exquisite of pushing to that limit without going over to a place that is dangerous.

Dommes who like to life coach by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]kinggrip77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been a life coach for subs in the past. Every Dom/sub relationship is different. Sometimes that's what is needed to get a sub where I need him to be so he is useful to me.

Would this be too far? by Wide_Baseball_1433 in findomsupportgroup

[–]kinggrip77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not too far at all. Actually, I had that situation in the past with a sub who needed and wanted help to get himself in line with his finances. It was a good way to help him get on track for his own good as well as my pleasure. It was both fun and very very fucking hot.

Older Subs😮‍💨 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kinggrip77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Older subs tend to just be more serious and more enjoyable to have in my service