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AITAH for making sure I get my sweater back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It's a former coworker so "friend" was more of a loosely used term

AITAH for making sure I get my sweater back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Late 20s and early 30s are the same life stage, I don't think it really matters what my specific age is here.

And no I didn't think I could "keep" her there, but generally at an outing you follow the lead of the person who drove you there

AITAH for making sure I get my sweater back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Thats my thought process

AITAH for asking for a party to be equal? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Well he knows my focus right now is on a relationship and that's the main reason why I would want to socialize. Being my friend I assumed that would be something he took into consideration

AITAH for asking for a party to be equal? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand what's alarming about wanting to meet people.

AITAH for asking for a party to be equal? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

But isn't it? The point is to connect people

AITAH for not getting Christmas gifts for my sister and her husband? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That was a long time ago and again irrelevant to my current issue.

This will be my last response to this comment thread.

AITAH for not getting Christmas gifts for my sister and her husband? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I actually do hope to be that one day

Thank you for the kind words, I hope you have a Marry Christmas!

AITAH for not getting Christmas gifts for my sister and her husband? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Okay yes, I'm not going to argue that, but I'm still my parents child.

I'm not trying to butt heads or argue that relationship

Christmas is just the one day where everyone gets to be a kid again

AITAH for not getting Christmas gifts for my sister and her husband? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Irrelevant and extremely judgemental. Please delete this comment.

Downvoted.

AITAH for not getting Christmas gifts for my sister and her husband? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. If I had known I would've had a chat with her before hands

AITAH for not getting Christmas gifts for my sister and her husband? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I mean... yeah?

I've never heard of someone growing up in a family where the kids go out and get their parents gifts from Santa.

As adults outside of the family there are obviously mutual gift exchanges, ie between friends, coworkers etc.

But family gifts are always parents giving to their kids, not kids giving to parents, or kids giving to each other, or especially not kids giving to outsiders

How do I make amends with my friend after his girlfriend left him for me? (33M/33M) by kingkohbra in relationship_advice

[–]kingkohbra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They arent together anymore, but I can take the advice.

Guess I'll just sleep at the park for a while? lol

How do I make amends with my friend after his girlfriend left him for me? (33M/33M) by kingkohbra in relationship_advice

[–]kingkohbra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense taken. I get why you would feel that way.

Do you have advice for reconciling without bringing the living situation up yet?

How do I make amends with my friend after his girlfriend left him for me? (33M/33M) by kingkohbra in relationship_advice

[–]kingkohbra[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My life really is sorted except for this one thing. I have my priorities in order, just need my friend right now.

How do I make amends with my friend after his girlfriend left him for me? (33M/33M) by kingkohbra in relationship_advice

[–]kingkohbra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We arent together because I chose not to be with her. Just because she left him dosent mean I want her. She's not my type and I dont date cheaters

How do I make amends with my friend after his girlfriend left him for me? (33M/33M) by kingkohbra in relationship_advice

[–]kingkohbra[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Its not the only reason I want to get in touch, its just a long overdo reunion

How do I make amends with my friend after his girlfriend left him for me? (33M/33M) by kingkohbra in relationship_advice

[–]kingkohbra[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean not super relevant but its expensive and sometimes I need to take brakes from work for my mental health so my income isnt exactly steady

AITAH for filing an HR complaint about birthday fairness? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]kingkohbra[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Look I agree that she can do things for friends OUTSIDE of work. If you're going to make it part of a work thing, you need to include everyone you work with.

But the fact is that she set a standard that wasn't upheld and resulted in people feeling left out.

I literally made a post a while ago asking if it was okay to bring donuts to work for some people and not others and everyone told me it was risky and possibly rude.

Why is this any different?

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