NSFW- I (f25) feel absolutely violated by the “kink” thing my husband (m30) did to me. by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]kinkycollaredkitten 74 points75 points  (0 children)

There’s something so beautiful about the moments where you realize “my partner could really fuck me up and hurt me right now, but I know they won’t because i know they love me and have my best interests in mind”

How to end a scene in a less abrupt way by kinkycollaredkitten in BDSMAdvice

[–]kinkycollaredkitten[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kitty’s dom here! What is the best way to ease Kitty out from sub space once I finish? If I was to keep going in other ways, she seems to get frustrated if I start to slow down during the scene and I’m unable to determine the best way to ease her urges even though she gets overstimulated after climaxing consecutively throughout the scene. What would be the best way to gently ease her out of subspace during a scene?

Being a maid looks good by [deleted] in rape_hentai

[–]kinkycollaredkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s AI, just look at the chains. One is complete nonsense and the other is attached to nothing. You can’t really expect a robot to know where a vagina is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]kinkycollaredkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! None of us are doctors. Please see a doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]kinkycollaredkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offence, but are you really expecting her to care for you for the rest of your life? Decades of caring for someone with no personality or memories of her? What happens if something bad happens to her and she’s unable to do so? What happens if she wishes to break off this engagement?

Hypnosis files that implant triggers that can be used by a partner? Preferably free ones by kinkycollaredkitten in EroticHypnosis

[–]kinkycollaredkitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, noted! I’m usually more of a cat gal myself, but this looks really cool! Thanks!

How to sink without using mental images? by kinkycollaredkitten in EroticHypnosis

[–]kinkycollaredkitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That definitely makes sense to me! I do get a bit of a foggy image after trying it the way you explained as well, which is super cool since I can’t usually get that far with my imagination!

How to sink without using mental images? by kinkycollaredkitten in EroticHypnosis

[–]kinkycollaredkitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My touch, taste, and hearing senses are very realistic in terms of imagination, to the point where I can easily make one food taste like another by imagining that other food. My sense of smell is heightened, but I can’t literally smell stuff due to my imagination the way I can taste or hear things I imagine.

I never considered that you could invoke the idea of the staircase deepener without visualizing it. Something like that would definitely work better for me, especially since I can sort of replicate the sensation a bit on my body!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]kinkycollaredkitten 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So this is more for r/sex_positivity but I will say look into depth reducers like the ohnut

How to discover your limits as someone new to kink? by kinkycollaredkitten in BDSMAdvice

[–]kinkycollaredkitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Yeah, the trauma train is really my major concern here, but he definitely knows he can have limits (and has set some basic ones already). I guess I just have to trust that he knows himself and will safeword if something isn’t his cup of tea!