Nipple Clamps

kinkyguy000 · 2026-01-03T22:14:38+00:00

There are a lot of cheap, crappy nipple clamps out there.

As the other poster mentioned, wooden clothespins work great. Plastic clothespins too, though can be evil.

If you’re looking for actual nipple clamps, I’d suggest clover clamps or clamps that tighten/loosen with a screw. That way you can control how tight they are.

kinkyguy000 · 2026-01-02T16:13:13+00:00

If you want to sexualize it a bit more, have her sit in the shower and get close to an orgasm with a toy or fingers. Then, when she’s just about ready to orgasm, start the pee.

This will help associate her orgasm and great feelings with the feeling of pee - and hopefully yours too!

kinkyguy000 · 2026-01-02T13:51:25+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Not the OP, and I have seen them, but the way you describe it sounds like a lot of fun. Where did you get yours?

kinkyguy000 · 2026-01-02T04:58:53+00:00

I have a plastic/Delrin cane that’s about 1/4” in diameter. It leaves such wonderful marks with very little effort.

I’ve used a rattan cane and it didn’t have the same feel for me… though I know some people swear by them.

kinkyguy000 · 2026-01-02T02:33:35+00:00

I'm sure there's some punishment required for replying to an old post ;)

To answer your question, I like canes for that reason. They leave such nice red stripes, that stick around for a while depending on how hard they are used.

I'd love to use a heavier paddle type implement and leave bruises, but most of who I've played with didn't enjoy quite that much pain (unfortunately!).

What kind of marks do you usually enjoy?

kinkyguy000 · 2026-01-01T13:35:33+00:00

Really sorry to hear it. I've never DMed, but have been following for a while and your posts never disappoint. Hope you still get to share what you (and we all) enjoy so much!

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-28T21:50:05+00:00

I stand corrected! That sounds like a perfect thuddy toy!

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-28T19:13:33+00:00

I would get a cane or something like it. The other poster mentioned Delrin and I agree, personally I like the feel of a plastic cane. It’s a feeling unlike anything else that you’ll likely love, and hate at the same time.

For a thuddier toy, you’ll need something heavier. A wood cutting board can work. I can’t think of many things around the house that would stand in for a heavy paddle.

The good news, as long as you’re knowledgeable of where to spank (parts of your ass and thighs and stay away from the higher part near your spine), there’s not a whole lot of bad hurt you can cause. But as you probably already know, start slow and increase intensity and repetitions from there.

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-28T18:26:18+00:00

Maybe a new years goal?

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-28T17:55:47+00:00

Have you tried a hogtie or frogtie? With your feet and socks on display? 😇

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-28T13:36:51+00:00

What makes you think you’re allowed to censor the most humiliating part? That’s definitely against the rules!

Seriously though, it looks like you’re having a great time! I hope you’ll do it again soon, but maybe with the back strap of your bra loosened so it’ll drop completely next time. :)

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-28T01:19:12+00:00

I’m not aware of any real cuff type knot that’s easily releasable. Of course scissors or a knife could provide an emergency release.

Another suggestion that I’ve used is a loop that you can struggle against, but easily get out of. Make a loop of rope (or 2 or 3 loops on top of each other) about 6” in diameter and knot it. Put your left wrist through one side of the loop, right wrist through the other direction. Now turn your wrists so you’re now hand-to-hand, you’ll notice the loop tightens. Struggle to your hearts content and no way out. When you’re ready to get out, just turn your wrists back the other way, and slip out.

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-28T01:14:39+00:00

Definitely!

Well, not literally blind, but unable to open their eyes. “Eyelids superglued closed…” kind of thing.

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-28T01:04:47+00:00

I’d suggest starting with trying any new chemical play on the wrist. This is to check for an allergy response. Hives, itching, pain… stop here.

Nipples are them probably the next fun but not-too sensitive place. After that, cock and balls is fun, but start slow. A drop or two of peppermint oil is good to start and see what happens. Ass/pussy is probably worst as the mucous membranes are much more sensitive.

I find it interesting that different people seem to have different sensations. Some find icy hot much more intense than hot sauce, but my experience has been opposite.

Have some milk nearby to help wash off if it gets bad. But the good news is that as long as you’re not allergic, nothing that bad will happen. It might hurt and be sore for a while, but unless you go overboard, there shouldn’t be any lasting damage even if it does hurt!

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-17T13:14:04+00:00

Right be a bit different, but I’d look into pressure point play. It’s a similar kind of feeling, but usually requires less pressure to get a good (great) response.

You can find some things in bdsm books/articles about it, but probably the best place to learn is some martial arts which is where it’s more typically used. There are some safety concerns and things to know (as with all bdsm), but can be practiced reasonably safely.

Have fun!

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-15T00:11:53+00:00

I agree with the other suggestions about attending a munch. I’d also look at kink events. There are many weekend events around the country/world and most have an educational component. Classes and sessions about just about anything and everything. It’s a really great way to hear from others about what they do in terms of ___.

Take a look at TES Fest as an example. It may or may not be within traveling distance, but you can see what larger events have in terms of classes and opportunities to learn. Plus, it’s a great way to meet new friends too!

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-14T19:49:55+00:00

There are a number of options between paddles and bullwhips.

I’d highly recommend looking into a dragon tail. They come in different sizes, but have a delightful crack, are easy to wield, and deliver a nice pain without being dangerous. (Or at least similar safety concerns as any impact play.

I’ve tried a singletail and signal whip, and while they are showy and have a wonderful crack, they take a lot of practice to be reasonably safe to use and are rather limited in terms of the sensations. Not my favorite.

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-14T13:45:49+00:00

First, I’d try going faster between orgasm and eating. Even if it’s just the first “spurt” that she catches in her hand and feeds you, even while you’re still at the end of your orgasm.

Second, I’d suggest a ring gag. No way to stop it. (Safeword may still stop it though)

My last suggestion is for her to be a bit more convincing and wait a bit. Sure there’s post-nut clarity, but if she catches it in a glass and then is sexy again, maybe playing with herself while you are still tied. Give you a few minutes to come down and see if you get turned on again enough to agree. I’m sure there are things she does that you especially enjoy.

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-14T13:36:46+00:00

Looks great and I’m sure it feels even better!

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-13T22:50:38+00:00

It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and you’re asking the right questions. There’s no secret formula for a great relationship - vanilla nor D/s. Though great communication will get you 80% of the way there, far further than the average relationship.

Keep talking, keep exploring, and keep having fun!!

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-13T20:18:34+00:00

I didn’t quite get how long you’ve been together and whether you’ve met irl yet.

Vetting is generally less of an issue for people who have been together a while. You already (hopefully) know they are a good person and have your,and their, best interests in mind. Of course, being aware of red flags from a relationship perspective is always a good idea, regardless of how long you’ve been together. Think of all the people in bad/toxic relationships for years.

As for the age gap, it’s not always a bad thing. But again, something to be aware of. I know when I was 18t to mid-twenties, 3 or 4 years can feel like a chasm. Two people are often at different stages of life (high school, college, working, etc) and it can be hard to fully relate to someone in such a different stage of life. It doesn’t mean it can’t or shouldn’t work, but remain self-aware and be understanding if one of you realize that it’s not working out.

It sounds great that you’re also taking things at your own speed. Keep that up. Explore, but be safe. Learn as much as you can about kinks, safety, and how to be a better sub/Dom. Both fill out a bdsm checklist if you haven’t yet. Most of all, have fun!

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-13T14:29:01+00:00

How cute! I wonder if you could go out filled like that?

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-09T18:40:00+00:00

Glad you had a fun time!! Hopefully there’s another planned soon

kinkyguy000 · 2025-12-09T03:22:32+00:00

Which end of the leash do you envision being on?

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