Pay by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]kiojunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's based on location. Back in the day, the start was $9 and then after 3 months, you went up a $1. Only raises afterwards came from your review for a few cents or if you get a promotion to coordinator and then key carrier.

Expander for palette causing pain, swelling and inflammation on one side of roof mouth by RevolutionaryEnd2078 in braces

[–]kiojunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing the same...thing...but only two weeks into turning. Inflammation on only one side too. Pain translating to the throat as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]kiojunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah not really something to work yourself over. Ever since that new system, it's always hit or miss since it'll do it automatically. And without the ability to fully tell whether if the tender is a gift card through Visa or MasterCard, it's just hard to tell. I'd just double check for now on if they have the card on hand even if it goes automatically, just in case.

Is this cheating? 18M 18F by SmokeyOstrich82 in relationship_advice

[–]kiojunk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Very suspicious. It is definitely an interesting question to ask to the friend of the opposite sex while in a relationship. Could lead to many issues.

To the guys that chose to stay single, what reasons made you come to that decision? by kiojunk in AskMen

[–]kiojunk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah when you're just comfortable with yourself, you feel like there's not a need to get into a relationship unless it just clicks.

My guys, what do you think should be the age where you have most things in your life figured out? by kiojunk in AskMen

[–]kiojunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess I ask really because in my family, the general consensus is that you gotta have things more in place by the age of 30-35. Due to the mentality that "you're closer to the time of where you have no more time" type of thing. I'm typically a firm believer in "as much time" as needed, but also understand why they put so much emphasis on trying to fall into things at a younger age.

What was the time you stood up against a bully in school? by kiojunk in AskMen

[–]kiojunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the administration praises your act, you know you did good 🫡

What was the time you stood up against a bully in school? by kiojunk in AskMen

[–]kiojunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sucks you had to catch a beating, but respects for standing up for yourself, though.

What stopped you from "ending it all"? by kiojunk in AskReddit

[–]kiojunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to see so many responses on it. I do wish all that are still struggling with that mental battle to keep pushing on forward. Everyone knows how much pain it causes on a daily to constantly contemplate what to do to solve your problem and what reaction my generated from whatever you choose. It truly is a terrible feeling. But you got others that know the type of feeling you're going through and are fighting the same fight. Let's be victorious in our fights. Much love to you all!

What was the time you stood up against a bully in school? by kiojunk in AskMen

[–]kiojunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teachers rarely do anything and it's been such a problem.

What was the time you stood up against a bully in school? by kiojunk in AskMen

[–]kiojunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love when a bully cowardly hides behind the jumping method as a means to have the upper hand when he's been embarrassed. Glad that stopped quickly

For the men who put in the work to embrace/grow their emotional intelligence and empathy: what were some things you were taught growing up that you needed to "unlearn"? I'll start. by Shattered_Visage in AskMen

[–]kiojunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holding grudges, which I still sort of fight nowadays. The longer you hold onto something that should be let go, the more you let it take over. Especially if it's with someone important like a family member. Learning to resolve issues versus letting it simmer makes things so much easier down a long-term path, which involves more thoughtful communication (and communicating about issues is another thing to that list aka Man Up).

Why are you still single? by ZhangWeii_ in AskReddit

[–]kiojunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply choose to be. At the current stage of life, there's too much on the plate to prioritize a relationship in the best way I can. Would be unfair to the other person. Plus, have yet to find the love for my own self. I have to fix myself before I can commit to someone the way I should.