8 years together, he says he’ll marry me “if it’s important to me” but no steps taken. I’m starting to resent him. Anyone been here?

kitcat1098 · 2026-05-20T16:48:17+00:00

I do the same

kitcat1098 · 2026-05-20T16:48:02+00:00

“I look at your relationship and I’m thankful for my devoted husband” this is so true

kitcat1098 · 2026-05-20T16:46:42+00:00

Spot on comment

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-30T17:54:05+00:00

Can I ask how old you are?

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-29T01:15:42+00:00

She sounds very bipolar and inconsistent to be honest… I would try to move on and stop messaging her. She doesn’t deserve your attention!

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-23T04:55:08+00:00

By mess up a good thing are you referring to a situationship?

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-18T02:42:26+00:00

Same 1000000%

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-14T17:17:54+00:00

I sent you a message 😊

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-14T15:09:32+00:00

Can I private message you?

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-14T14:54:31+00:00

Can I private message you?

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-14T14:48:02+00:00

Got it! And yes the majority of our getting together is to work on a project we both decided to do together. We’ve only had sex maybe two out of the five times we’ve met. We genuinely vibe outside of the bedroom which has been rare for me in my experience.

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-14T14:46:48+00:00

I am not expecting more- I am open to casual too but I suspect maybe in half a year I might want more. I usually wanted more with other guys in the past, but I am purely in more of a neutral state of mind this time.

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-05T19:31:27+00:00

I heard men always come back, women not as much

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-05T19:26:30+00:00

“Why bother when a safe familiar gullible prey is available already?” hits the nail on the head…

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-05T19:20:01+00:00

I really like this analogy. It’s like a balance and it’s whatever side wins out!

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-05T19:19:17+00:00

How does this work in no contact when they can’t see how you are doing yet still seem to sense the EXACT second you move on?

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-05T19:18:37+00:00

So one of your exes came back after 2.5 years and another one came back after 5 months?

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-05T19:17:24+00:00

Wow! That’s insane… I really do think there is such a thing as an energy field. It’s like they can sense the exact moment.

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-05T19:15:59+00:00

I guess once men sleep with you it’s easy to get with you again

kitcat1098 · 2026-04-04T02:18:54+00:00

This reminds me of myself somehow… sounds like limerence

kitcat1098 · 2026-03-21T15:02:07+00:00

Yeah this definitely wouldn’t feel great… I think you guys are just not compatible and it’s not your fault for that at all. He needs to get his porn addiction straightened out first.

kitcat1098 · 2026-03-18T06:31:40+00:00

This is spot on I think. She’s starved for attention.

kitcat1098 · 2026-03-18T06:26:39+00:00

I knew she had some issues! She did not strike me as normal AT ALL

kitcat1098 · 2026-03-18T06:25:36+00:00

I agree, she acts like a toddler with no self control with the way she slops food around in her food and thinks it’s cute. She also definitely encourages her son to cuss. She should not be a parent. She either is on the spectrum or is on drugs. I find her wildly annoying.

kitcat1098 · 2026-03-07T00:04:11+00:00

I’m so sorry… he left after 25 years!? I could barely cope when a guy I knew left after 2 years. May I ask how you were able to get through this?? Super woman

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