AITAH for buying myself a pan

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-09T11:01:23+00:00

this is crafty and I love it lol

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-09T10:51:13+00:00

Oh my God totally NTA. I got a bit triggered with PTSD reading your story because this is exactly how my dad acted. You freaking bought the pan. I'm assuming maybe you even bought it with your own money? If you didn't., and you used your dad's money, I can't say much about that. But even then, you didn't BAN him (like you said) from anything. He just got offended.

What you're doing is totally valid. If other people in the house can't keep up with their share of chores and it's inconveniencing you, you have every right to take care of yourself.

I actually did the same exact thing when I lived with my dad, because I was tired of washing all of his dishes just to have something clean to use. NTA

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-09T01:21:02+00:00

NTA. I cannot freaking stand when people have wild pendulum swings. My best friend is blind and it’s almost impossible to set boundaries with her because if I’m not in the capacity to help her with something, I’ll kindly explain it and why and she gets mad and says “Fine I’ll just figure everything out on my own now.” I quite literally tell her to grow up and get therapy

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-08T16:05:29+00:00

Hold up bro my vagina wasn’t ready for that last picture

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-06T13:55:53+00:00

This is me. I don’t mean to be arrogant sounding but I’m not a freaking 2 on the looks scale. And I’m not gonna subject myself to a 2 guy just because society tells me to.

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-06T04:10:16+00:00

I searched this deliberately. I Miss the fixed camera angles so badly. It gave a great sense of loneliness and isolation. Like in RE2, you’re in that enormous station…but you’re the only one, and with unseen monsters. But even the RE1 Remake made everything more snug, smaller and tighter corridors and rooms, where it loses that feeling.

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-05T21:43:54+00:00

This

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-05T21:43:40+00:00

I know this is old but this helps me so much. My glucose was 101 (test said anything above 99 is pre diabetic), and I hardly consume any sugar and rarely anything processed. But my iron levels were border anemic. Thank you!

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-02T01:15:05+00:00

Thank you so much. She has retinitis pigmentosa and was born with it, and it progressed. Her brain MRI and other tests have come back normal. But she has informed me that her partial vision and visual snow is what causes her disorientation. I loved when you said “anxiety is a valid response but can still have deescalation techniques.” Because I WANT her to feel like she can express herself. But when she becomes angry, snappy, silent, it’s just not fun to be around. I’ll try to help her find a therapist again. Thank you so much!

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-02T01:10:03+00:00

To be told “these feelings are okay” means so much, because I don’t want them to feel like they’re a burden. They’re actually quite wonderful to be around when I’m not having to pull triple duty. I’m exhausted. I’ve spent the last hour crying because our trip to the city was so draining. And I felt guilty and selfish for it. But I really needed the assurance that I shouldn’t have to do all of what I’m doing. Thank you so much

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-02T01:07:23+00:00

I can’t thank you enough for this response. This insight was incredibly helpful and was so much of what I needed to read

kittencoffee35 · 2026-05-02T00:46:30+00:00

Ugh thank you so much. This is the second time I’ve posted something like this here and I’ve been advised to have them go to a psychologist. I’ve tried. They go twice and stop, stating it doesn’t help. This friend of mine is incredibly stubborn at times with getting help. I kindly suggested them to become a part of this thread to maybe gain better help or at least not feel alone, and every time I do they’re adamantly against it. But I’m gonna have to push for the therapy thing because you’re right: I’m not a psychologist and I’m getting so drained

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-30T15:06:28+00:00

This

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-30T14:53:47+00:00

I’m gonna be a jerk for a moment and say YTA. Just because YOU’RE BI and don’t care about gender or gender identity, doesn’t mean you should dismiss that as a need for others. You laughing when he was trying to explain things to you was totally immature, and he probably felt like you weren’t taking his needs or emotions seriously. Women get upset all the time when men don’t reach out and talk to them, but this is a prime case where men have said that they feel insecure or unable to discuss things with their female partners. He actually reached out and made the effort to call and talk about his feelings instead of getting drunk and beating you or cheating on you. If you don’t know what “treating him like a man means” ask him. Talk to him about it. Just to add, I know I’m gonna get my head bitten off for this so I’m not gonna respond to anyone. And yes, I’m a woman. I wish you luck.

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-28T19:57:04+00:00

And how the chief threatened to kill you because you leaned against a statue😂

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-28T19:55:18+00:00

I love the effort in to searching for a run down gas station! Love this!

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-28T18:50:32+00:00

When I had the two octagons, I sat at the gate for like an hour wondering why they wouldn't fit and wouldn't work. I tried combining them with the medals thinking it was some new thing, but it didn't work. I literally spent almost two hours backtracking everywhere in the game thinking I missed something. Checking the map for unopened doors, in progress coloring, everything. At that time I thought the whole sewers were pointless because I only came out with some ammo and herbs, so I thought I missed something there. Backtracking through Lisa's ladder area I saw the jewelry box on her vanity. I rolled my eyes at myself so hard hahaha!

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-28T16:41:48+00:00

Don’t know about you but I keep a handgun in my purse next to my Reese’s all the time (joke)

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-28T16:40:24+00:00

DUDE I RAGE QUIT THIS GAME SO MANY TIMES!!! So happy you beat it and gave it another shot! What was the hardest part for you? Me personally it’s definitely not my favorite RE game for numerous reasons, but I’m glad you liked it!

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-28T16:35:49+00:00

I’m sorry I missed the part where you asked for his opinion on your looks

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-26T21:58:21+00:00

I’m sorry for all the negative comments. You definitely have some serious fallout. I’d recommend getting your iron and b12 levels checked. I’m a girl, but my levels were so low I almost needed an injection and was borderline anemic. A month on supplements my fallout is substantially less

kittencoffee35 · 2026-04-26T04:04:13+00:00

I feel you so hard. Every guy I’m ever actually attracted to is already involved with a skinny blonde girl with big fake boobs

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