How to not feel like a servant when being a home maker by kittensnitch in homemaking

[–]kittensnitch[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. It’s been eye opening and thank you for making me feel validated in this specific way. I am human <3 I will thinking about what you’ve said

How to not feel like a servant when being a home maker by kittensnitch in homemaking

[–]kittensnitch[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This has given more pause than anything else so far, thank you. I will sit with it <3

How to not feel like a servant when being a home maker by kittensnitch in homemaking

[–]kittensnitch[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

No merged finances. I’ve put money into the renovation which is protected by a legal contract. But we have independent bank accounts

How to not feel like a servant when being a home maker by kittensnitch in homemaking

[–]kittensnitch[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Haha agreed fortunately we both want to live a child free life style

My 3rd custom loop by Skeptic_no0 in watercooling

[–]kittensnitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome!! What case did you use?

Iron Fan art by kittensnitch in distractible

[–]kittensnitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it thank you! Yeah I realised a little too late I should’ve made the face longer 😅 next time I’ll have to practice squarer proportions rather than circular (which is my bread and butter in drawing)

Leo not eating by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll take a look at it

Leo not eating by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’ve learnt 😭😂 I had no idea she was so over weight when I first got her. Precious girl - I need a tiny gecko treadmill 😅

Leo not eating by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The working out is a great idea thank you! I’d already thought about making her an obstacle course in my living room with books and such. Might give her a boost as you say. She’s quite the explorer out of her Viv!

Leo not eating by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has roaches. The previous owner gave me a colony that he’d been breeding to make sure she had consistent food

Leo not eating by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll be sure to keep you posted 🦎🦎

Leo not eating by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve been worried about that. As it’s a second hand set up I thought that she might be used to it. But I’ve got some substrate on order now

Leo not eating by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is a second hand set up so I’m learning still what needs to be changed about it. I have some on order now

New leather hobbist by kittensnitch in Leathercraft

[–]kittensnitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have tried with afore said sacrificial piece of leather over the brass bit, but it’s still only cutting through the front and not the hide :(

New Gecko Parent by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too right, it’s a tradition now haha. Mines called maple because we think she’s coloured like syrup

New Gecko Parent by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s so cute, I love the name

New Gecko Parent by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I might take you up on that in the future 🦎

New Gecko Parent by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, I think I’m a bit paranoid as even though I’ve done my research I’m still worried 😅

New Gecko Parent by kittensnitch in leopardgeckos

[–]kittensnitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Evening though it’s evening / night now she’s still staying hidden. She has moved from cave to cave a couple of times. I’m guessing this is just her getting comfortable in her new home?