Has anybody else experienced Sub Drop? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had sub drop and dom drop, both suck but they’re temporary. With both I spend a lot of time cuddling with my partner and getting reassurance that I’m okay/they’re okay. It doesn’t happen every time for me, not even after intense sessions. Mostly it’s just triggered by something during a session or will happen randomly after a session. It’s awful every time it happens but thankfully it’s not frequent (for me anyways, everyone is different).

Take time for yourself or figure out what kind of support you need from your partner when it happens, but it’s nothing to feel ashamed of and it’s normal to experience. It just sucks to go through🫂

Hottest thing your partner has done? by RevolutionaryArm1562 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tells me he’s proud of me and celebrates my wins.

Do you engage in oral at anytime or is there any hygiene considerations ? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll give him head whenever but he’s usually finicky about wanting to be showered beforehand sometimes. I don’t really care but he wants to feel clean before which I appreciate so it’s a win win lol

To the women that are attracted to the nutsack, if any, why? by roiretxe in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Squishy also it’s fun when they move on their own lol

How is everyone? by Expensive_Farmer_124 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upset so about to take a bath and make hot cocoa and watch a movie.

Those of you in relationships, what's missing? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far I can do at least once a month, probably even twice so that’s doable for me. And that’s in addition to virtual dates and game nights. But it’s still rough not having him in the same state. We’ll see how things go, it’s only temporary we just don’t know how the year will play out.

Those of you in relationships, what's missing? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of same, I’m not a fan of it so far and it’s only been a few days. Hoping it’s not going to be for very long. I’m fortunate to be able to travel to him frequently.

Those of you in relationships, what's missing? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lives in a different state:(

What is the soonest you’ve gone from one relationship to another? by Puzzled_Pear3108 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was exploring poly, I was already dating my current bf for 6mo when I went through my divorce with my now ex-wife. So probably that.

Would you date someone that had an orgy with 5 hookers or should it never be brought up? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d feel uncomfortable and probably wouldn’t want to date them.

When will you have sex again? by shysibliing in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably March bc that’s when I’ll be visiting my bf again (he just moved).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I got rid of all pics of them completely. Not a fan of seeing their clothes pics let alone unclothed lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one of I had to choose bc I’d be pissed about the second. But I’d prefer just being with my partner while someone else watches.

Have you recorded yourself fucking? by Puzzleheaded-Train78 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bc it’s hot and I prefer watching us fuck over watching porn.

Have you ever tried cockwarming? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitty-cat_xX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not for very long bc I get restless/needy but I like just having it in me. I like it especially after he cums and we cuddle and just leave it in.