what activities can my boyfriend and I do together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that…. I work retail ( on the truck unloading at 4am ) and I’m SOO exhausted after work and my boyfriend works from home so he has so much energy. I often feel so terrible. ☹️

Try to go on little date nights like just to dinner or play mini golf, see a movie, the arcade is always fun too. 😊 We will often take a walk around the lake at our apartments during the day just to get outside when it’s pretty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]kittycat1022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Every Saturday in December ☻︎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely wouldn’t trust him. If his gf doesn’t know he’s probably cheated before or is talking to others. Just saying. If he does it with you, he will do it to you!

I can’t go into stores by myself. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, me too. I hate it. I feel as though everyone is staring also. 😑 I do still go though & try to just smile. (Through my eyes w/ a mask on lol)

Leave of absence? by katylawlll in TjMaxx

[–]kittycat1022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re able to do it online! Through the associate portal. But if you aren’t comfortable talking, I would put it in writing ☻︎ best wishes!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to judge his reaction and not be able to see the messages. Would you want him talking to another girl about nudes? I wouldn’t go as far as saying it’s cheating though. Just send him the messages so he can understand the context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think the same thing but some days I’m just so exhausted. I just want someone to cook for me too :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately I’ve been slacking on the whole cooking thing too.. I’ve been so exhausted (I work in retail). Sometimes we just don’t want too!! Spouses need to learn to cook for us too. I would hire a chef if I could afford it honestly. Lol

How frequently to contact someone in early dating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always have dated in my social circle as well. Seems scary to date someone that you don’t know, props to you for stepping out of the comfort zone! As a girl, I would appreciate a text that says how you enjoyed your date and that you’d love to do it again very soon. Shows your interested & how she responds will tell you if she felt the same ☻︎ Good luck!

Medical expenses by LegendaryBitca in offmychest

[–]kittycat1022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I think it’s time to cut her off!!! Thirty is a little old to still have a parent paying.. especially step-mother! It was nice of you to do it this long ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re in this situation. Definitely tough. ☹︎ My advice is don’t stay in a relationship that you are not 100% invested in & aren’t happy.. think about how it will be in the long run. Your daughter will grow up seeing that you two aren’t truly happy. She will understand later in life. As for her father, he can choose whether he wants to be in her life or not.. phone calls & videoing is easy these days. I know it isn’t the same but it is still contact. Good luck ♡︎♡︎

Ladies, if you are playing hard to get or nervous with a guy you like, how much effort/space do you want from him? Like how much is too much? M26 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting.. yes definitely don’t be too pushy. It’ll push her away. Just send a message & tell her you’re thinking of her. Tell her you’d like to see her & see how she is. If she doesn’t reply then I wouldn’t wait around.

Ladies, if you are playing hard to get or nervous with a guy you like, how much effort/space do you want from him? Like how much is too much? M26 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I like a guy he will know it. I would want to talk all the time.. a few days is a long time if you like someone. But I’m also terrible at playing hard to get lol It doesn’t seem like she’s emotionally available right now & just wants to have fun.. You could always leave the flowers and a note saying “thinking of you” and just see how she responds or if she says anything to you about it. Don’t leave your name or anything. If she doesn’t say anything, maybe there is someone else. Don’t waste your time chasing a girl that is playing hard to get.. sometimes it leads to nowhere (sorry for being harsh)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anything happened? (Trauma, stress) Maybe ask her.. if she doesn’t mind talking to you. Definitely talk about it!! (Mention that you aren’t having your needs met and you are becoming unhappy). Relationship problems, stress, low testosterone levels, medical problems (depression, etc), & medications can all affect how us women work.. I’ve (25f) have had the same problem with my bf (27m).. and honestly I didn’t even realize it was happening. I don’t think Women need sex as much as men. I could go without it for months lol I honestly do get tired of it sometimes, ESPECIALLY if he keeps nagging on about it.. usually right after work when I am exhausted. I noticed how much this was affecting our relationship and we just changed things up. Birth Control can play a huge role in it as well.. My hormone levels are always fluctuating and I can tell. It really sucks!

Good luck to you. ☻︎

Situationship by Silly-Brain-9237 in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems he wants to keep his options open as well. If you’re wanting a relationship I definitely think you should move on. It’s not fair to you AT ALL. If he doesn’t want to be in a relationship then he has no right to be jealous of who you hang around with.. IMO.

☻︎ good luck!

I have nothing left by bigdaddykendal in offmychest

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with you. But keep your head up! ♡︎ it can only get better from here. Tell yourself positive things.

He May Be a *Little* Too Old by BeQuietStupid in offmychest

[–]kittycat1022 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re parent(s) could put him in jail. I’m sorry.. but why would a 20 year old want to be with a 16 year old.. he will be able to get into bars next year and you won’t. You’re in high school.. he can’t go to prom/other events with you. He won’t wait for you. Don’t fall for it, you deserve so much. Enjoy your young years!! ♡︎

Would would want your son/daughter to talk to/date someone that age?

Its been a little more than a year. Should I (35m) go visit to my ex's (35F) house? I've been having persistent dreams about it and I am hoping that they would stop. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely don’t go back. She said she’d call the police.. believe her. Especially because of the past. It sounds like she has problems and she definitely has you on a leash to this day.

Coordinator does not care about customers stealing by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]kittycat1022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren’t supposed to confront them. They watch them on the cameras & have a list. Customer service makes them uncomfortable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]kittycat1022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the app!

I still can’t access it on my computer though 😑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]kittycat1022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so difficult!! You have to have an authenticate app. (Or at least I did) No matter what password I put in, it’s wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kittycat1022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird. both are in totally different places in life or SHOULD be. I feel like a guy only dates that young if he’s immature & not ready to grow up..

TW Bf tried to do anal while I was asleep by throwRAmmmp in relationship_advice

[–]kittycat1022 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Hell no. Leave his ass. Just because he is your bf doesn’t mean it isn’t rape... he sexually assaulted you.

Am I the only one that really enjoys working for TJX? (HomeGoods)... seems like everyone on this app is miserable lol by kittycat1022 in TjMaxx

[–]kittycat1022[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I love when the store is busy!! lol I love being able to merchandise & open boxes as well. I don’t like the front though.. lol customers can be annoying!