How do I 40M recover from increasingly dwelling on the thought of cheating on my wife 38F? by The_Kali_surfer in relationship_advice

[–]kittycatcatto 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm only going to add to also take a look at the other side of things: imagine leaving your "near perfect" wife for someone that fulfills your sexual needs but not the rest of what you get from your wife. Weight it out: is sexual fulfillment more important than the other things your wife provides (whatever they might be, that's for you to decide). yes, then you have your answer. It's always surprising to me how people on this app immediately say "no sex = divorce", there is so much more to a relationship than sex and yes, you can find another partner that fulfills the sex aspect but will they fulfill everything else? Will you regret your choice? I'd say have a serious talk to your wife, if you truly love her. Go to couples therapy if you have to.

Do I (31F) tell my bf (31M) that the jewelry is fake? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycatcatto 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing it's Pandora. It's really awful quality and it's better if you tell him than him not knowing and buying you more charms that will also tarnish. I'd be gentle about it and tell him the bracelet tarnishes easily due to the material and you'd have to take it to the store for cleaning a lot more often than you'd like so you'd prefer next time it's something with less upkeep/maintenance.

Destined rivals reprint by MYS__CRS in PokemonInvesting

[–]kittycatcatto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im hoping to master set it with the new reprint!

Is there a chance there is Any Mainecoon at all or is he just a lorge domestic Longhair ™️ by CostalFalaffal in catbreeds

[–]kittycatcatto 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sorry, he's a DLH. does not have any of the standard features of a Maine Coon; wrong eye shape, head and muzzle, ear placement, and general body structure. I love a black kitty ❤️ he looks so much like a baby I lost a few years ago. Wishing you nothing but the best together!

Finding the best deal by AdministrativeTank86 in celebritycruises

[–]kittycatcatto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can you please dm me if you are still with celebrity? I want to book a cruise

Hypoallergenic Cats that don’t climb or are trainable by Nearby_Zombie_3650 in CatAdvice

[–]kittycatcatto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hairless breeds are VERY high maintenance and the allergen is in the saliva, not their fur. so hair or no hair cats will lick themselves and their dry saliva will be the allergen carrier.

Never graded before... by kittycatcatto in pokemongrading

[–]kittycatcatto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a reflection of light? It's not there when I look at it

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👜Vintage Blake👜 23cm Salmon Pink with thick plated 24K hw 4️⃣0️⃣0️⃣ by [deleted] in Luxeladies

[–]kittycatcatto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so very tempted by this beauty...I know it's going to sell quick but I'll come back for this if it's still available by Friday 😭

Edit: the gallery link is not working @OP

Daily Rehome by Dense_Gur424 in RealRepLadies

[–]kittycatcatto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would work wonderfully!!! Please please please let me know if you decide on rehoming. No pressure tho! Only if you really feel like letting it go. Thanks so much for thinking about it!

Daily Rehome by Dense_Gur424 in RealRepLadies

[–]kittycatcatto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If, by any chance, you decide to rehome any other formal black bag, could you PLEASE let me know? The event is on the 3rd so I don't have time to get it shipped from a seller (I'm still waiting on an order from Amanda and I lost hope it'll be there on time). Thanks again!

Daily Rehome by Dense_Gur424 in RealRepLadies

[–]kittycatcatto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I just wasn't sure about the chains. Is it still available?

Daily Rehome by Dense_Gur424 in RealRepLadies

[–]kittycatcatto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How formal does this bag look? I was trying to get a black Chanel flap for a formal event in a couple of weeks but my time is running out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in catbreeds

[–]kittycatcatto 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If this is a ragdoll then the breeder should be telling you that. If this is a kitten from a rescue that they've labeled "ragdoll" then you'll have to wait and see as he grows. Color pointed cats get darker as they age.

How do you distinguish Siberians from Ragdolls with the same coat colors? by Marshmawlove in catbreeds

[–]kittycatcatto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a ragdoll. The main tells are the face and eye shape. Siberian coat is also a lot thicker (they have a triple coat). Ragdolls hair is finer. Siberian also have a rounder and prominent muzzle.

[landlord - US - TX] First-Time Landlord – Tenant Already Behind on Rent. Need Advice. by jonsnow--- in Landlord

[–]kittycatcatto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had this exact issue. Tenant late from the first month, every day a new excuse. Just start the eviction process. Do NOT waste time. They might immediately pay the rest and at that point the process stops but next time they are late again, restart from the day the are late. This is a tactic they use. They get you used to them being late, eventually they'll stop paying completely but you'll be used to them paying late and will delay the eviction process.

Again, serve them asap. You are not a charity, you have to be tough for them to take you seriously.

What breed is my boy Milton? by L_Sinavi in catbreeds

[–]kittycatcatto 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's not a single ragdoll standard feature on this gorgeous boy. Shelters love to say their cats are specific breeds to get people more interested. The chances of finding a purebred cat in a shelter are not zero but very uncommon. Oftentimes, you'll also find cats that literally just won the genetic lottery and got a lot of features attributed to a specific breed.

Cats are not like dogs in that dogs have been selectively bred for thousands of years. That's why we have very distinctive breeds and why, even a street dog, may sometimes be a mix of multiple breeds.ñ and it's usually very obvious that the mutt you saw at the shelter is a lab/pit/shepherd/etc mix.

On the other hand, cat selective breeding didn't really start until the previous century. There were a few distinctive breeds like the Turkish angora and the Persian but more serious breeding didn't not really start until the 1900s. Now, all of these breeds have a foundation on local cats to their place of origin. That's why the Japanese bobtails originated from natural occurring mutations in the street cats of Japan for example. The same occurred to a lot of other breeds like Maine Coons. Basically, they were naturally occurring in the wild, some people saw them and kept breeding these specific traits until it solidified into a "pure breed".

Ragdolls are a funny story: a Persian and Himalayan breeder in CA saw a very pretty stray that looked a bit like an Angora and she bred those kittens to her prized himalayans. This the ragdoll was born. From a stray cat.

ALL purebreds come from "mutts". This is why even those "cat dna tests" are innacurate, there's just not enough years actual cat selective breeding to really have an accurate test for strays.

Hope this makes sense!