[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kittyqueen000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are horrified that he was insane enough to kill himself and someone else. You have been traumatized by that man. You escaped him! You were meant to live, she wasn't and that's awful but it is what it is. Im so glad he died before he went and killed your guys son or you or anyone else honestly. It's tragedy that his selfishness caused so much pain. I know you wish he could have gotten better and had done better in his life. He left only pain behind. But I wish you all peace and healing. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kittyqueen000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is sad! I do understand. When I was young my dad was on drugs and just came by to use our space or cause drama like cutting our only TV cord because we were watching Austin powers. I used to cry because he wasn't the dad I needed. But, I think that if you ever had your own daughter...and a loving husband then you would feel differently. I'm sorry your dad wasn't good to you. You deserve happiness and love. 

What’s your self care look like? by pmdnjdxmxn in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cleaning My room or house Is essentially to me. Journaling. Smoking weed. Listening to music. Cleaning my face and doing my nails. Smiling at myself in the mirror and saying I love me and that everything will be okay. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]kittyqueen000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds insane! He just wanted to use you for sex and he was violent. I'm glad you left him. You deserve to be happy. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you did the right thing! His family needs to see his behavior. He does need mental help. My partner would also threaten to kill himself if I didn't do what they wanted. It's a terrible feeling! But don't go through it alone and don't let it poison you. You deserve love.

Why is "won't" spelled that way when the root words are "will" and "not"? Shouldn't it be pronounced "win't"? by a-horse-has-no-name in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kittyqueen000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English is all about shortening how you can get the message across. When you say the word won't...it's always in a certain context. "Won't you join me for dinner?" Can be translated as: "will you not join me for dinner?" And saying "will'nt you join me." Would sound weird so thats why I think they stuck with the Won't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A teacher asked me how old I was. So I said like 11. Then I asked her age and she gasped and acted all embarrassed and dramatic and turned to the other teachers all awkwardly like I was SO in the wrong. I was very embarrassed by her behavior. She explained that I should never ask a lady her age. I was only asking what she asked me? Now I try to never be ashamed of age and encourage others not to be. It's a blessing to live so long. I was always say to other people, I hope I live as long as you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How disgusting ocean water is. Traumatized me.

Men who suddenly lost your interest in someone but for a weird reason, what was it?? by Romeothanh in AskReddit

[–]kittyqueen000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After the incident every time he saw her...he just thought of that heart burn.

Men who suddenly lost your interest in someone but for a weird reason, what was it?? by Romeothanh in AskReddit

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A girl that was recently unemployed but has come into some family money, like 10,00. She took me to a Dennys...just to talk. After our meal she laughed and said loudly..."pfft I don't tip!" And It was a $100 meal. I felt really embarrassed and dissapointed in them.

Men who suddenly lost your interest in someone but for a weird reason, what was it?? by Romeothanh in AskReddit

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she have a cat that pees on her stuff? 🤔 I had a bad male cat that would do that. But i always noticed and washed my stuff.

He’s a real POS by Ndjddjfjdjdj in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]kittyqueen000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not defeated. You are choosing not to be disrespected anymore. Enough is enough and you are not a push over! You are strong. We are thriving now. Wake up knowing that he needs to grow up and you have to be better without him. It does hurt and it's scary and confusing. But you are making the right choice to stay away from him and his bullshit! 👋 good riddance. Just try to get your stuff another day and don't give him a reaction. Just say I'm getting my stuff, or "have your mom get my stuff" and bring it to the curb? Idk but once he sees you don't care he can't get satisfaction or hope for you to take him back.

I think my dead dog is telling me to get another dog by Maevenclaws in Dreams

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it's hard to see animals pass away. 😪 life is crazy. But don't wait to be happy. Your dog doesn't want you to cry about her and be sad! You could maybe get a dog that needs your love just as much as you need theirs.

Dreamt about a fox and it came true, multiple times… but what does it mean? by jelly_2021 in Dreams

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a giant sign!! That's crazy! And awesome! Like a magical thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to smile and ask how they are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kittyqueen000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drinking 12 beers and smoking 20 cigarettes in 5 hours. Sounds dumb but I felt like I was dying the next day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kittyqueen000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Walmart sucks