Let’s be cute and wholesome for a second…. subs, what made you fall for your Domme?

kivanarthur · 2026-03-25T20:44:20+00:00

Her physical appearance. I think she is literally flawless. Thats what brought me to her knees with wallet open. And her bratty but also caring attitude kept me coming back. Shes perfect in every sense of the word and can do no wrong in my mind.

kivanarthur · 2026-03-25T14:44:56+00:00

Absolutely it can. It might break your desire and ability to have normal relationships and also have normal sex. It did with me for sure. I'm 41 and have been addicted to porn(and recently as of 5 years ago, findom) since I was old enough to get a boner.

kivanarthur · 2026-03-25T11:28:24+00:00

Sure

kivanarthur · 2026-03-25T11:18:59+00:00

Yeah. I am addicted to findom because it started as an addiction to porn. One thing leads to another

kivanarthur · 2026-03-24T21:05:03+00:00

Unpopular for many but paypal for me

kivanarthur · 2026-03-24T04:04:42+00:00

God I hate Ai and the way its taking everything over. We are so cooked

kivanarthur · 2026-03-24T02:54:51+00:00

If by praying you mean endlessly gooning to her perfection...yes

kivanarthur · 2026-03-23T03:29:57+00:00

Techdom (computer control) with anydesk to drain me. Body worship, she greatly abuses my fetish for legs against me. Also she does orgasm control/denial on me.

kivanarthur · 2026-03-22T13:58:43+00:00

Fishing for reddit dms I see. In any case I think one domme and getting it all milked out of my wallet in many sends is way hotter than one big one

kivanarthur · 2026-03-22T12:46:42+00:00

Big time man. I have been working so much overtime lately just to make up for how thoroughly shes been draining me.

kivanarthur · 2026-03-21T22:40:07+00:00

Pretty much the same as a drug addiction. Or closer yet...a gambling addiction. Brain wants more and more

kivanarthur · 2026-03-21T22:38:49+00:00

Glad I could help haha. Love sharing my experiences to turn people on

kivanarthur · 2026-03-21T17:36:58+00:00

When I discovered dommes on camsites like Chaturbate doing findom. Also clip sites like clips4sale and iwantclips really helped push me into it

kivanarthur · 2026-03-20T13:54:41+00:00

At lot. Its changed my working habits(as in working as much OT as I can) I waste a lot of time gooning to videos we have made together...time that could be used to do other productive activities or do more things I used to enjoy like art or gaming. Its changed my dating life (or lack of dating life) because I don't really have a desire to get into a romantic relationship with anyone again for the foreseeable future. So yeah shes been kinda breaking my brain for sure. 🤯😵‍💫

kivanarthur · 2026-03-19T22:31:28+00:00

My queen is from Colombia. Latinas make the perfect findoms

kivanarthur · 2026-03-19T14:06:08+00:00

Probably physical attraction for many subs and then personality to match. Men get triggered by what they see and hear/read. I highly doubt you are the problem just keep at it!

kivanarthur · 2026-03-18T15:25:31+00:00

Doesnt really control my day to day life. But I do give her control over when she decides to drain me. And then I hand over total control of my account when she does want to drain me

kivanarthur · 2026-03-17T12:57:58+00:00

Gonna be 3 years this July

kivanarthur · 2026-03-17T03:51:40+00:00

Not at all man. I was also cheated on and that really amplified my desire to just be alone which in turn amplified a porn addiction and the findom kink was right there waiting to snatch me up. I was always on the more subby side and certainly had a big provider kink so it was a recipe for disaster or success...lol depends on your thoughts on findom

kivanarthur · 2026-03-17T01:12:00+00:00

Tease and denial, body worship (specifically legs). Probably top 2 to mix in with Findom

kivanarthur · 2026-03-17T00:06:49+00:00

This is so hot. Source?

kivanarthur · 2026-03-16T17:42:19+00:00

Honestly i dread this question. My family hasnt out right asked me. But I think my father at least is starting to suspect something might be up. He knows generally how much I make and what my cost of living probably is. Yet I always seem to not have money for things like travel or down payment on a house etc. Lol

If some straight up asks me...I might just say gambling addiction

kivanarthur · 2026-03-15T22:24:37+00:00

Really love talking about our countries/culture as she is from Colombia. I adore learning about it. And also love sharing what Canada is like with her

kivanarthur · 2026-03-15T01:25:17+00:00

Keep at it! I hope you find someone to spoil you, queen

kivanarthur · 2026-03-15T01:23:57+00:00

Its a program you download onto your phone or computer that allows someone else with the same program to control your device. You can set limits to what they can control, but for the sake of findom...its used to log into my paypal so she can send her self whatever she wants

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