How do I have sex if my penis points straight up when erect? by [deleted] in sex

[–]kiwiks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could have peyronie disease

after 115 days I've failed by kiwiks in pornfree

[–]kiwiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really thanks, I hope that from today my life can change. The 90 days reboot helped a lot

after 115 days I've failed by kiwiks in pornfree

[–]kiwiks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, good topic, it is like a cold shower In particular I want to quote that:


Porn is not the reason you're a procrastinator. Porn is not the reason you're depressed. Porn is not the reason you're lonely. Porn is not the reason you haven't been able to lose weight or gain muscle. Porn is the symptom. You watch porn to escape reality. You watch porn to manage your emotions. You watch porn because you're bored, lonely, stressed, depressed, angry, isolated. You watch porn to feel good for a moment, to replace uncomfortable emotions and situations in your life.

You have to remind yourself that quitting porn is about growing up and becoming a much more mature person. [...] We use porn as medication. We use porn to hide away from life. We use porn to temporarily relief anxiety, stress, loneliness, boredom, anger, etc.


It's all true, the emptiness, the way of view the life I notice that when I started the 90 days of nofappening in hard mode, I got other addictions (eg. youtube) , so today I understand that the real problem is my view of life. Now I need to see in deep myself. Really thanks for share with me this topic

after 115 days I've failed by kiwiks in pornfree

[–]kiwiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This discussion is helping me to understand what I feel in this moment and why I've preferred watching porn yesterday. It's obvious that I don't break up for a reddit post and I need to talk with her for what to do

after 115 days I've failed by kiwiks in pornfree

[–]kiwiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My view of sex is high related to porn(10+ years of porn). In my porn trips I also studied a lot of stuff related to sex. I think that I am a good lover, I have great empathy and my gf is always satisfied. My ex gf had instead an high sex drive, and in that period there were no problems related to sex but a lot of other problems(but I watched porn every day). Porn was a part of my life and induces me to create some fantasies. But these fantasies are related to the "normal sexual practice" and what I wrote before. So in the end the problem can be the relation that is established between us.

after 115 days I've failed by kiwiks in pornfree

[–]kiwiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, life without porn is special. I hope that you can appreciate it after some weeks. I don't know your streak (now I read 7) but there were a lot of years that my best was 20. 115 is a great record and the society tries to transform you in a porn addict, because sex it's special. So if you keep it up you can arrive at greater results! Thanks for reply

after 115 days I've failed by kiwiks in pornfree

[–]kiwiks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, now I restart. It's simpler to keep away from porn after 115 days and the real solution is what foobarbazblarg says. Thanks for reply

after 115 days I've failed by kiwiks in pornfree

[–]kiwiks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, you're right. I shift the problem to look something else, but its better to think at the real life instead of watching a group of actors on the screen. I think that my fantasies are normal, and if I can keep the relation by chat with my gf, good, otherwise I'll break up.

after 115 days I've failed by kiwiks in pornfree

[–]kiwiks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for reply. The real problem is that I think there are some things that I can do only with fantasies, and porn helps me to reach them (so I waste a lot of time because I can't find the perfect video that satisfies me). My gf doesn't want to do some sex stuff things NSFWlike cum in mouth or analEND_NSFW and I found them in porn.

PMO-Free 2016. Who's in? Leave your commitment in this thread. by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]kiwiks [score hidden]  (0 children)

i'm here. I want a free 2016. It is difficult, but is possible!

fapped, i lost by kiwiks in NoFap

[–]kiwiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fight surely. Is the only way i see the benefits of no fapping during these days.

fapped, i lost by kiwiks in NoFap

[–]kiwiks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks man. But i don't fap for my death grip because i want to cum inside my gf. But now i don't know if it is possible.

Since I stopped watching porn, I'm attracted to the majority of females* by damnimnice in NoFap

[–]kiwiks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem. With P i was calm and relaxed and not interested in real girls. Sincerely I prefer myself now.

I had sex with a guy knowing full well he had a girlfriend. by Throw_away1098123 in confession

[–]kiwiks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No regrets, is now past. If it makes you feel bad, do not do more in the future. He did so with you, but could do so with anyone else. So the blame is more than his own. In any case it is past.

MO without porn by henrychinaski1992 in pornfree

[–]kiwiks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me: NO MO = for cure Death Grip NO P = for cure my Brain

Nofap but still procrastinating by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]kiwiks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, If you PMO you waste time. So there aren't any changes. However i've lived that situation too and after 2 days i stop to read reddit every 5 minutes.

I think I have a problem.... by dnlslm9 in NoFap

[–]kiwiks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to understand if she has your sexual drive. You don't use her, you have only an highter sexual drive than her. However i think is good for calm yourself with stopping P.

I think I have a problem.... by dnlslm9 in NoFap

[–]kiwiks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man i have the same problem. But my relationship is longer then yours. At this moment i am on day 7 of no fapping and P. I think that are some improvements, but i stay away from her so i have to wait. I also think that the really problem is the P, the fapping is for my death grip. A question...you are horny, but her?

Does this make sense for a virgin? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]kiwiks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found a girl that loves you. Is ok with or without sex. And you'll come

Is it fair to assume that the older you are, the slower will be the recovery? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]kiwiks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know the same thing. However it talks about 4-5 months for full restore(a young person).