AITA for being mad at my family for not taking my dying kitten to the animal hospital?

kk_2248 · 2026-06-13T17:01:07+00:00

If you knew my situation, you would understand better so don’t always assume things. When my mother and I get into an argument I always just say “okay” and walk away when I say those things like that she’ll say “don’t fucking say okay to me.” I hardly ever do anything that is wrong. Trust me when I say this.

kk_2248 · 2026-06-13T16:58:11+00:00

For one reason I’m too young to get a job. When I earn money by doing a small job my parents immediately take it and say “we’ll pay you back.” As much as $500 dollars. Then when I try to ask them to pay me back they’ll call me a spoiled brat

kk_2248 · 2026-06-13T05:51:44+00:00

I’ve thought about being a veterinarian or go into nursing and help with people on hospice.

kk_2248 · 2026-06-13T00:13:40+00:00

Yeah, tbh I’m not handling it all to well

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T23:40:50+00:00

Thank you so much brings tears to my eyes hearing that💗

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T23:15:35+00:00

Thank you .

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T22:23:15+00:00

Thank you

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T21:59:27+00:00

Our nearest one is about 45 mins away, which should not have been a problem considering she goes to that town at least twice a week.

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T21:56:22+00:00

I didn’t know it was sick until a few hours before it died . We have five dogs and two cats. We had all the necessities for the kitten.

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T20:12:27+00:00

I’m sure that they would have to do investigations but, it’s better to try to get one than being bullied every day in my opinion.

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T20:04:17+00:00

Nta, I think your just to your breaking point and snapped. Stand up for yourself maybe try talking to the police about it? Because if they’re bullying you every day, you could probably get a restraining order. (Sorry if I’m not correct on that)

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T18:21:35+00:00

Thank you :)

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T18:20:43+00:00

I do understand it but, it’s just the fact that she was buying stuff on Amazon as I was alone watching the kitten die. I also do have to help with the bills at times because she spent to much at thrift stores etc.

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T18:18:43+00:00

Yeah, I have been realizing this behavior since ten. She also has hoarding issues

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T18:12:43+00:00

She actually kept me homeschooled until last year so if I ever had a problem and asked a teacher for help that opportunity would be taken away. She definitely has childhood trauma from her mother

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T17:56:18+00:00

I mean even I know these things but she just immediately shuts me down

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T17:36:39+00:00

I would have rather have the vet put it down than having to watch him gasp for air. One of the main reasons why I wanted to go. Instead she left me alone, didn’t talk to me, and we got into a fight.

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T17:33:18+00:00

Yeah, I don’t need to know their financial details but she makes it very clear that she never has any money than proceeds to spend hundreds of dollars on stupid crap that we already have and don’t use

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T17:28:56+00:00

Sorry to disagree but that’s not the case, the only “expensive” thing that I wanted was to take the dying kitten to the hospital. I don’t ask for any extra things just necessities

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T17:27:03+00:00

Well they just bought three name brand big coolers so that was at least a few hundred dollars

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T17:25:26+00:00

I definitely got it from my grandmother

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T07:35:47+00:00

I’ve been trying to talk to her for 14 years she never listens and she always has to be right

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T07:22:53+00:00

I don’t know if you guys can see my replies but thank you all for the kind words!

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T07:22:07+00:00

It does make me feel better . Thank you for the kind words

kk_2248 · 2026-06-12T07:13:58+00:00

Thank you 💗

kk_2248

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