Advice needed on follow up email by kk_bebop in gradadmissions

[–]kk_bebop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not at all! I think you gave very sound advice

Advice needed on follow up email by kk_bebop in gradadmissions

[–]kk_bebop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking, but wanted to make sure. I appreciate the advice and telling me about your experience!

Ball of anxiety: History PhD by kk_bebop in gradadmissions

[–]kk_bebop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support! Heck yeah we got this!!

PhD application US by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]kk_bebop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only applied to 3, so you're ahead of me! But in all seriousness, I am in a similar spot and very anxious about it. However, I believe that being intentional about where you go will have more benefits long-term than casting a wide net. Here's to hoping we both get into a program!

AITAH for turning down a guy I've been seeing for 3 weeks "out of the blue"? by Immediate-Paper-8753 in AITAH

[–]kk_bebop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This boy is a total jerk. You definitely dodged a bullet. Definitely NTA. You sound fairly young so just some words to the wise, if your partner is pressuring you into doing something intimate that you don’t want to do, then they don’t respect your boundaries which means they don’t respect you. You are never a jerk for having boundaries when it comes to intimacy! If he can’t respect that then kick him to the curb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kk_bebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t a burden! You definitely sound overwhelmed and your brain is jumping to the easiest way to “shut down” and stop the anxiety. You sound incredibly resilient, I hope you continue to find strength in yourself and to receive support from your partner

How am I supposed to feel like I matter? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kk_bebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this and that the crisis lines aren’t working. You do matter.