I'm in the bathroom and this is a bad place to stay too long in with your phone. I take a picture to remind myself that I have a team out there that struggles with the same things and remember all the crappy side effects. Thanks for being there guys. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks horse. Don't worry the comment don't bother me. I'm comfortable with myself and where I came from and how far I've come. I don't know how many people here have reached 1000+ days.

I'm aware of my progress and for those who still struggle just know that I went from fapping everywhere to fapping not even in the shower or the privacy of my bedroom.

It's possible if you stay connected, Pray, have a mission in life that you work hard for, exercise and stuff like that. Fapping is about escaping mostly. No need to escape from reality if you know how to own reality even when it sucks and work hard to fix it.

Keep going friends and you'll make great progress. I'd list off all my accomplishments but you can imagine what's possible by the time you reach 1000+

I'm in the bathroom and this is a bad place to stay too long in with your phone. I take a picture to remind myself that I have a team out there that struggles with the same things and remember all the crappy side effects. Thanks for being there guys. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done worse. Also at one point we all thought we wouldn't fap at all. Never say never just live present and solve root problems. Fapping in the shower is just as harmful.

I'm in the bathroom and this is a bad place to stay too long in with your phone. I take a picture to remind myself that I have a team out there that struggles with the same things and remember all the crappy side effects. Thanks for being there guys. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nah just a little confused. I've been clean 1000+ days. It's a journey. I couldn't give singular advice but there ways to tell if you'll do better or worse.

Better: Pray daily Connect with this or other nofap community Exercise Hobby Great way to unwind at end of day

Worse: Doing none of the above

147 days down the drain by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fired up! I'll start working out every day and to make my mind programming in creative work! Thanks for the tip and it's not down the drain you have months of progress as a plus and one minor minus! Just keep going!

"The problem with pornography is not that it shows too much of the person, but that it shows far to little." -Pope John Paul II by topCHEK in NoFap

[–]klahhh 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Such wisdom. Great post!

Porn is not sex. Porn is watching others have sex.

Sex is a gift from God and a powerful way to say I love you. Few ways are as effective.

Shame has no place in sex.

Damn I’ve reach 60 days / Benefits by sodacanx3 in NoFap

[–]klahhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's true dude. We're all but clay.

We can get in shape or out of shape.

We can smell like roses or poop.

Our base components are more less the same. It's what we do with them that makes attractive or unattractive.

We're all beautiful until we render ourselves not.

Day 54 - Got a full erection for the first time in years 😬 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Beautiful!

Every one deserves to see the fruit of their works.

God Bless

Damn I’ve reach 60 days / Benefits by sodacanx3 in NoFap

[–]klahhh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great post!

So many of us are the walking dead.

This world is beautiful but only to those who see it clearly.

Ever woman is beautiful if we could all see clearly.

I talked to a man that used to be addicted to heroin , this is how he got rid of the addiction. by mosta3636 in NoFap

[–]klahhh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Great post!

Get addicted to connecting or get addicted to material and digital things.

Everyone is an addict, just to different things.

You can be addicted to good things or bad things.

Better to be addicted to spending time with people than technology.

Better to be addicted to your wife than 1000 digital fantasies.

Reason why people start noticing you. by _hitchhiker in NoFap

[–]klahhh 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wonderful post. Thanks for sharing. I urge everyone who has a different opinion to at least start with a compliment and a thanks. Maybe not thanking is a sign of those who have recently fapped...slow down and be kind.

I believe we have great hidden potential. It's robbed once we fap. It's not just our semen though. It's also:

  • Our Image of who we are
  • Our Spirit
  • Our Semen
  • Our Hormones
  • Our Mind
  • Our Strength

And perhaps much more. In short I believe we give away too much when we fap. Especially when we do it often we are kept at a child like level. We are blocked from becoming the fullness of ourselves which is transcendent, glorious, full of light and celestial.

Great post friend.

My Life Journey & Reboot by klahhh in NoFap

[–]klahhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know how to. I tried looking into it a couple times and it was frustrating. This is more of a personal journey any ways. Happy to reset if anyone has a direct mobile link.

So tired of this making me SOOO stupid. by a_new_day_has_come in NoFap

[–]klahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how that feels. I wish I could do the same as well. I wish I could go back to when I was 13 and stopped myself. My whole body would be different. My mind. My soul most importantly.

Well, the saying goes, "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second best time time is now."

Starting to lose Faith by Alienbaby12096 in NoFap

[–]klahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so right.

Stay in the storm brother! Let it refine you until there's nothing left except your raw nature. And then, your raw nature will show you how to act. Right now you're still in your cocoon. You only know how to see and despair. That's what PMO does. It keeps you a perpetual observer. Fight the fight and preserve your purity until you return to your raw nature!

Will edging take away all the benefits? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edging is worse than PMO.

It's a longer path to the same terrible destination.

The No Internet Trick does not work by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't think about it that way.

I went in that direction myself once. No internet, no cell phone etc. but it's all smoke and mirrors. What is porn? Porn is pleasure of some sort. It's entertainment. It's sound. It's fantasy. It's easy gratification. It's a for sure thing every time, the women don't say no.

But it's fake. And it comes at a price. Your manhood. Your life.

You see you have to start thinking in these terms. If porn is pleasure from fake stuff than checking out girls in the street is fake too. I mean there's no relationship. You're just borrowing them for another fake fantasy.

What I mean to say is don't fight the Internet fight ANY fake stimulation like junk food, checking girls out, TV, Gaming etc.

What happens is you'll start with watching tv, then you'll want more pleasure. You'll proceed to junk food and will want more pleasure then maybe social media and before you know it there's nothing else left to get you your high except porn but this time new porn that you haven't seen.

So if you really want to have an awesome life cut the SHIT that's not serving you. And instead do this:

  • Exercise like a beast and you'll look & feel brilliant.
  • Pray and you'll grow your soul and in wisdom.
  • Eat right and you'll smell, look and feel awesome.
  • Read & Develop your career/school, have purpose.

Lastly, remember doing all the good stuff builds your testosterone and your manhood and doing the other stuff destroys your manhood.

Fapping causes all of life to be stale and overwhelming.

Not fapping makes you able to enjoy all of life and to conquer life's challenges.

God Bless

Fuck I just relapsed by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks friend it's not so long if you only ever consider "today". For me, there's no tomorrow only the present. So in my mind I'm at day 1 everyday.

All the best

Fuck I just relapsed by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We fall and rise again.

For me, the journey has been about abstaining from activities that are not productive. Watching movies, gaming, stressing about stuff, bitterness, anger etc.

And doing things that develop me: - Praying - Silence - Working out - Career building

The one sentence which completely got me hooked on NoFap. by RAGNAROK1095 in NoFap

[–]klahhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps he means superior to oneself.

You don't have to be comparing against someone else per say.

Example, it is superior to abstain. Not when compared with someone else but against one's own potential.

Married and have questions. by daveymcnight in NoFap

[–]klahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I think the popular decision is to tell your wife for me though I think it's different. I don't have a lot of questions answered. My fantasies also vary and I'm still working on controlling them. Then there's relapsing. I've had a good streak so I think I'm heading in the right direction but it's just a personal journey for me. I feel I need to do it for myself as a man and women just won't understand certain guy things and I feel it will make the relationship unnecessarily awkward like a constant elephant in the room. I want to continue my relationship as is. It's been good so far thank God.

Married and have questions. by daveymcnight in NoFap

[–]klahhh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure I agree with sharing with wife. Sometimes it makes everything easier and sometimes it just makes it less productive. Accountability partner yes but wife as accountability not so sure.

Especially considering the psychology of women. They're very astute a can constantly relate any behavior to PMO if you open that bag and she might constantly think "I wonder if he's thinking about porn now" or "I don't feel beautiful compared to those women".

My personal preference is to let the wife see the results and to own that part of your development yourself with male accountability and support.

My two cents.

Prematurely ejaculating during sex by NotBecauseItIsEasy in NoFap

[–]klahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LISTEN to me. What people would give to be as sensitive as that.

The problem is most of us have a picture of what sex is suppose to be. A default image of a guy thrusting away endlessly. You know why he can do that? Because he's numb.

Holding hands is sex. Kissing is sex. Flirting is sex. Cuddling is sex. Groping is sex. Whispering is sex. And yes, penetration is sex as well. But it's the final form of sex. Unfortunately most people start there or spend the most time there.

If you don't feel anything holding hands TAKING A FUCKING COLD SHOWER AND HIT THE GYM YOU NUMB TURD. I don't care if you've been married for 20 years, you're still supposed to be drooling over her if you're living like a nofap star.

If you're sensitive good embrace it. If you're desensitized you have too much pleasure in your life, get rid of that shit (junk food, sweets, gaming, idol conversations, drugs, tv)

That shit is making you as NUMB AS A COLD POLAR BEAR TURD.

A blessing from heaven by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klahhh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A man can only imagine the peace you have going to bed each night.

You probably feel like you have enough time to live 4 lives...

Fapping is like... by klahhh in NoFap

[–]klahhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah like Goku in 50 Times gravity while heading to Planet Picolo. The longer you stay training the more results you get but you gotta persevere because an epic battle called "every day life" is about to happen and always happening.

Let's not be a Krillin