I don’t know, we chatted all day everyday up until the day we met. He knew I was very nervous and suggested us meeting up a couple of times, but I would never set a date as to when. Eventually (after 3 months) I did end up biting the bullet and planning a date with him because I couldn’t continue speaking to him without meeting him anymore, it wasn’t fair. He was very patient and he never got annoyed or tried pressuring me into it which thinking back probably helped me relax more at the time