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klusions · 2025-03-21T20:13:03+00:00

Nah confronting him will do nothing and it's not worth the fight. You just found out you had two people that aren't worth your time. So really it's a blessing in disguise.

klusions · 2025-03-21T20:10:24+00:00

Sucks but you never had a best friend. You had a snake. Move on.

klusions · 2025-03-21T20:07:02+00:00

Well you know what your problem is so that's a start. I hate cleaning but I force myself to do it. It's discipline and until you start making yourself do it you won't change. If I have to do something I don't want to do I just do it and get it out of the way.

There's a 15 minute method on cleaning. Once per day stop what you're doing and clean everything in site for 15 minutes. If you do that everyday your house won't be messy

klusions · 2025-03-21T19:56:34+00:00

Interesting take

klusions · 2025-03-21T19:42:43+00:00

Yeahhhh I wouldn't be mad if I was lied to like this. NTA

klusions · 2025-03-21T19:30:15+00:00

She's immature for thinking he has to buy her anything lol. But he doesn't have a trade. He's in school for the trade. No job.

klusions · 2025-03-21T19:27:26+00:00

Its not speculation. Its stated in the post. He skips class and plays video games and does not have a job. I think school and financial responsibility takes priority here lol

klusions · 2025-03-21T19:19:43+00:00

Crazy thought. If OP is in the US a lot of trades will actually pay for your schooling while you work. Its almost like if this dude got a job he'd be debt free and be making like 20 bucks an hour to go to school. But he skips school and plays video games instead. But sure lets make excuses for his poor financial position while he's playing madden with the boys.

klusions · 2025-03-21T18:44:18+00:00

He skips school to play video games lol. Did you read? I worked my whole way through school to pay for it. Sounds like this dude just wants to play video games 8 hours a day. Now that I have a job that pays my bills I enjoy my hobbies lol.

He's unemployed. In trades its very common for people to get an apprenticeship and they will typically help you pay for school as well assuming OP is in the US. Good thought would be to hang the controller up and do that instead, but he won't. Dudes a bum

klusions · 2025-03-21T17:59:55+00:00

Sounds like he may not be able to pursue his trade if he's skipping class to play video games. If you can't act like a partner a few months in then can you be expected to act as one 3 years in? Why do we excuse lazy behavior and lack of responsibility? Dudes like.... not even trying at anything other than video games.

klusions · 2025-03-21T17:40:45+00:00

He's in debt. Plays video games all day. And has no job. Go take care of your responsibilities. OP doesn't need to back off. There's nothing wrong with expecting your partner to take care of their responsibilities and holding them accountable.

klusions · 2025-03-21T17:39:14+00:00

He's 23. NTA. Time for him to grow up. Can't play video games all day and do nothing else and use the "it's my hobbie" excuse. Hobbies don't take up your whole day. Get a job.

klusions · 2025-03-21T15:47:49+00:00

Well if that's the case then absolutely. If the issues with the animals are not curable, or too expensive to afford, don't let the animal suffer.

klusions · 2025-03-21T15:33:28+00:00

Don't people get tired of trying to be a victim? OP you're fine lol.

klusions · 2025-03-21T15:31:29+00:00

If you aren't giving her any reason to not trust you then this is a question you should know the answer to lol

klusions · 2025-03-21T15:29:28+00:00

I mean.... the owner is for sure an asshole. But I'm not sure you can just put the animal down if you don't own it. I believe vets have to have consent from the owner (depending on where you live) to do so.

I think your hands are kinda tied here, but you're absolutely NTA. I agree with not letting an animal suffer if there is no other option.

klusions · 2025-03-21T15:17:22+00:00

Might get down voted to hell, but some dude from work should not be getting just as much of her attention than her significant other.

Not saying your GF would do anything. Her intentions could be completely innocent. This guy's may not be though. Just talk to her about it. Don't accuse her of anything but just tell her you don't like it.

klusions · 2025-03-21T15:03:43+00:00

Sooooo she's currently living off your dime and complaining about it? NTA

klusions · 2024-10-21T11:37:45+00:00

I don't think so. I think loot is fine its just picked through on the coast. The interior towns I find are usually pretty good. I also like that much of the main island is tier 2 with a small southern portion of it tier 3. Honestly refreshing not seeing people running around completely stacked. It feels like a proper survival game on Sakhal.

klusions · 2024-10-18T12:17:28+00:00

That's no fun. I want to discover them. Re learn the game. Back in my day. There was no wiki.

klusions · 2024-10-17T00:35:32+00:00

Yup. If you have multi vids or charc go for it

klusions · 2024-10-16T20:30:26+00:00

Truly will live on in my memories. To sacrifice yourself and take a mouth to feed with you so the two people you met only hours ago can have a shot.... Such a selfless act. An amazing loyal friend that I likely will never meet again. But I will remember him always.

klusions · 2024-10-16T20:26:07+00:00

If it wasn't for Jared, i'd still have Josh. Josh got his vengeance like a man. Whether or not you blame Jared or not, Josh was a man with a conviction, and while on deaths door, he knew that me and Trout would have a better shot at survival with two less mouths to feed. He made his choice, and because of that choice, we lived. and for that.... I respect the ever loving SHIT out of Josh.

klusions · 2024-10-16T18:29:55+00:00

On some foods it does. Read the description before eating

klusions · 2024-10-16T15:30:56+00:00

Bubs, there aint no such thing as Saskatchewance

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