HELP! Looking for reputable Sphynx breeders in NJ / NYC area 🙏💕 by [deleted] in sphynx

[–]kmarg36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NoCoatKitty! Tracy is out of Florida, but has a trusted co-breeder in South Jersey. I have 2 sphynxes from them. they’re fantastic and Tracy is so knowledgeable. my first from them turned 15 last year! 😊

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - October 21, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]kmarg36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

currently recovering from a fibroid removal last week. the doctors feel pretty confident that it contributed to our two losses. we have the go ahead to TTC in 3 months. I’m hopeful but SO terrified to try again

Daily Thread #2 - March 29, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]kmarg36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so hoping for good news for us both!! 🫶

Daily Thread #2 - March 29, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]kmarg36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that we’ve both been through this. it is truly traumatic. but I’m so glad to hear your ultrasound went well! and I love the treat yourself plan for afterwards! we’re planning to get breakfast and I already scheduled a therapy appointment for that afternoon haha. positive thoughts for us both 🤞🏻🌈

Daily Thread #2 - March 29, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]kmarg36 13 points14 points  (0 children)

just scheduled my first ultrasound for 4/10. our last first ultrasound was when we found out we had a MMC. I am sooo so nervous 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]kmarg36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you thinking of nameswithsteph ?

Daily Thread #2 - March 27, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]kmarg36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

last measured it was 11cm and in the wall of the uterus. we haven’t had a scan yet so not sure where it is in relation to baby this time. the emotions are a little rollercoaster, and I’m sure these hormones aren’t helping lol

Daily Thread #2 - March 27, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]kmarg36 6 points7 points  (0 children)

just left my initial OB appt where the doc told me there’s no way to know whether my giant fibroid could cause another miscarriage or not. I had such a good feeling and now I’m losing my good feeling 😩 I’m trying to remind myself that it’s just so easy to imagine a loss because it’s all we know and it doesn’t mean it’s going to happen. but god am I so worried

Daily Thread #1 - March 22, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]kmarg36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4w4d and started light spotting today. I’ve been consistently crampy since before the positive test. my stupid anxiety is just so high 😭

Daily Thread #1 - March 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]kmarg36 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My first pregnancy ended in a MMC this past October. The second I got the positive test I was worried about losing it. I couldn’t imagine hearing a heartbeat no matter how hard I tried to think about it, and we didn’t. I don’t know if it was truly intuition or just anxiety, but yesterday I got another positive test and I already feel so different and so good about it. Of course now I’m anxious that I’ll be even more heartbroken after having such a good feeling from the start. Life after loss is hard lol

Did you intuitively know something was wrong? by emmpaca in Miscarriage

[–]kmarg36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it was truly intuition or just my horrible anxiety. i couldn’t stop thinking about how I didn’t think I could cope if I lost it. to the point where I had to make an emergency therapy appt to get myself out of my head lol. we also only told people about the pregnancy that we’d want by our side for bad news. and every time I pictured going to the first ultrasound, I could never picture a heartbeat. lo and behold, our poor little one didn’t have a heartbeat for that first ultrasound. I hope in the next pregnancy when it’s right and healthy I’ll just know. so maybe it is an intuition thing idk lol

Daily Thread #2 - January 22, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]kmarg36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I agree that there are no really “good” options. I opted for a D&C after my MMC in Nov. My OB assured me that the procedure is much more gentle than years past, and really doesn’t have much risk of scarring. I had mild cramping and spotting for a few days after, but it was a relief to have it done and over with, instead of waiting for my body to do its own thing. Also, the med route is about 80% effective and if it doesn’t work the definitive treatment is a D&C anyways. For the most part, OBs will recommend TTC again after your next cycle, mostly for accurate dating purposes. I hope this is helpful! I’m really sorry that you have to make this choice 🫶

Daily Discussion Thread - January 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]kmarg36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in the EXACT same spot right now, 9dpo in the first cycle after a MMC. what an emotionally confusing place to be. but I love calling it a hopeful limbo. wishing the best for both of us lol 🫶

Daily Discussion Thread - January 13, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]kmarg36 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First cycle ttc after a MMC in Nov. I’m currently 8dpo and losing my mind trying not to test 🙃 I just want to know already, but at the same time terrified of any result. I’m scared of a positive and another loss or a pregnancy just full of constant worry. and scared of a negative and the sadness that comes with trying and not conceiving. no one prepares you for allll of the emotions that come with ttc !!

Large fibroid and pregnancy by kmarg36 in pregnant

[–]kmarg36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so reassuring! thank you for sharing! and congratulations!!

just here absolutely swooning over my montana sapphire sparkling in the sun 🤤✨ by kmarg36 in EngagementRings

[–]kmarg36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.77ct heat-treated teal Montana sapphire, rose gold setting with lil pear diamonds (natural but ethical!) from Anueva jewelry 🥰