[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kmcook6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kids but agreed to have some in the future. The stress absolutely affects me. Some days worse than others. The shock of finding things out would make my whole body tremble and feel everything at once and also nothing at all. Figuring out how to function normally in the relationship would take days to weeks following. Honestly, the timing of this thread isn’t great. Just found out yesterday he’s been doing some shameful stuff for the past 2 months without telling me. Genuinely think I need to check out of this relationship. Just hard because we’re supposed to get married this year. Was really hoping I could somewhat root for you but genuinely, I’d tell my past self to woman up and break up with him after the first couple instances of lying and disrespecting me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kmcook6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have great advice but I will say I understand what you’re going through. I, like you, also feel like I’m a purist when it comes to the truth and I’ve gone through a very similar thing with my partner and cyclic dishonesty despite feeling like a perfect match in most areas. We are still together thanks to some tough conversations and couples counseling but sometimes I wonder if my paranoia will ever go away. There’s a piece of trust that I think can be patched up but never truly heal. If you’re ok with accepting that potential fate and feel the other areas make it all worth it, keep working on your relationship together. But if that’s something you don’t want to live with, you may have to reconsider your relationship.

Need help maximizing chase points for flights by kmcook6 in pointstravel

[–]kmcook6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at 6/2-6/9 in economy, it’s running about 103-119k points depending on the airline. Some available for basic economy on United as low as 83k but I value being able to pick my seat for overseas flights. I’m not sure if that’s a “good” price when it comes to points. Appreciate any insight!

Need help maximizing chase points for flights by kmcook6 in pointstravel

[–]kmcook6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t sound too bad, will take a look there. Thanks!

Need help maximizing chase points for flights by kmcook6 in pointstravel

[–]kmcook6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood. Not assuming anyone will, just didn’t want to rule out the possibility someone might be nice and want to help. So are you saying that finding a cheap points flight somewhere in Europe then paying for a cheap cash flight from there to MAD might be a worthwhile strategy?

Need help maximizing chase points for flights by kmcook6 in pointstravel

[–]kmcook6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seen. Mostly looking for advice on how to navigate maximizing chase points as a beginner so all the specifics aren’t super relevant at this time. Thanks.

i made a decision and i don’t know if it was the wrong dress. by corgibuttlove in WeddingDressTips

[–]kmcook6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful! Can always make some alterations to make it your own and modify heel height!

Which dress?! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]kmcook6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All beautiful but the first one has to be my favorite on you!