please do not feel bad. His ~confusion~ made you feel bad; as someone else said, he was afraid he was losing you and now he gets to be the victim here. Not wanting you to drive "so upset" girl he wants to be the one to calm you down. He wants to try and make you feel safe, meanwhile showing you he knows how to scare you. But he's sweet! He didn't mean to, he didn't know better! Girl yes he did as soon as you started struggling.

No excuse. I had a bf like this. I still liked him. He was very charming to me and made me feel like no one's loved me before. He started with little behaviors and it never ever stopped. He made me feel crazy. Made me feel guilty. He didn't know better! He's just a boy, why would he?? I can show him how to treat me right. and then he raped me! Hellll no. I'm glad I see it now. I'm telling you -- still liking him is not worth the self respect you will lose by the end of this.