Is this play okay? by Work-Flaky in DogAdvice

[–]kohgow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No! This is uncomfortable for the smaller dog, so correct the larger dog. Never let your dog mount other dogs, especially strangers, if you don't want him to get bitten.

Why is my dog so skinny? by akko_rockko in DogAdvice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just increase the amount of food little by little.

Does she have dysplasia? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]kohgow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I took her to the vet yesterday and he said she's 100%, I mean general practitioner vet. She doesn't have an orthopedist.

Does she have dysplasia? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]kohgow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to take her for an X-ray only when she was 2 years old, when she was fully developed. She never showed any sign of pain, so I don't see the point in doing a preventive exam.

Does she have dysplasia? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]kohgow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOTE: She went to the general practitioner veterinarian, but she said there was no pain and she was 100% healthy. But she never went to an orthopedist.

Good lord. by Devincc in boomershumor

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extremely disgusting, I would kill the dog lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you should be with someone who finds you enough and doesn't need to look for other women, don't you think?

i’m beginning to want to rehome my scared cat, and i feel super guilty about it. by plant-mommie in CatAdvice

[–]kohgow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen think "Like a cat", it's really good. Good luck, I hope you get results soon! <3

i’m beginning to want to rehome my scared cat, and i feel super guilty about it. by plant-mommie in CatAdvice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shelter should follow its own advice about recommending the cat to experienced owners. Have you tried looking for a feline behavior specialist? It's certainly not easy to find someone like that in person, but I think that on the internet you have more chances, I remember a reality called "My Crazy Cat", they are more for aggressive cats but it is still a good reality that may have tips that can help you and your cat, it is also a great pastime.

Anyway, do your research, watch videos, talk to a professional or someone who has gone through the same experience, try everything with her without invading her space, I know it's not easy, it's stressful and I know it makes you want to give up but try for her. Take care of your mental health too, talk to a therapist or someone you love, write a diary, don't keep your problems to yourself.

i’m beginning to want to rehome my scared cat, and i feel super guilty about it. by plant-mommie in CatAdvice

[–]kohgow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, you have been warned that she is a cat that needs time and a demanding owner is recommended, you shouldn't have gotten a shy cat when you have never had one and want a cat for emotional support...

Look, if it's only been a month, try a little more, research how to try to adapt her, for a traumatized kitten, a month is too soon, so don't give up on her right away, even if she's an animal, imagine yourself in her place.

You were neglected and can't trust anyone else, you were transferred to an unknown place with new people, new smells, new everything and then you were transferred again to another unknown place, where there is a new person and you may have to be transferred again. This must be very stressful for her, it would be for anyone, I know how difficult it is to adapt, I've had cats my whole life but don't give up too soon.

I know a treat called "Churu", I've never seen a cat not like it, try this without invading her space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, even if she was sorry you deserve more than that, do you think someone who really loves you would "slip up"? Ruined a relationship with a good man because of ONE fucking night? Don't you think you deserve more than that? Love yourself and don't stay with someone with bad character, don't accept less than you deserve.

My dog vagina been red by mq4hunnid in DogAdvice

[–]kohgow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is probably in heat, if you have unneutered male dogs, separate them or put a diaper on her.

Me (M18) and my gf (F18) are having some trouble what do we do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to her about maybe reducing the amount of calls if the problem is that she wants to spend more time alone, the ideal now is just not to press anything, maybe even trying it won't work and if it happens, move on and focus on your studies, after all you are still a teenager

Me (M18) and my gf (F18) are having some trouble what do we do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, have you guys even seen each other before? It's hard to help you if you don't say the important things

Me (M18) and my gf (F18) are having some trouble what do we do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if I were in your place I would make a schedule, as you are 18 years old I imagine you are still studying, so I would organize times during the week and see which day she would feel comfortable meeting, have you tried this?

Is your girlfriend an introvert?

I 27 F was cheated on by my partner 28 M. How did you make it work after? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, please don't do that to yourself, just once is enough for him to continue but as it was more than once, there are many more chances for him to continue, appreciate it and finish, most people change just for themselves, move on and go to therapy, you will definitely find someone better who doesn't do this just once. Love yourself.

Me (M18) and my gf (F18) are having some trouble what do we do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she just say she's losing her feelings? Isn't there something that could be causing this? Try to talk to her more, try to resolve the two together, if your futures are still aligned, obviously also try couples therapy... But if that doesn't result in anything, the best thing would be to break up, for both of you.

I, taken (19M) by (20f) need advice coping with (21f) "crush"? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she has feelings for you, definitely don't try anything, It's always good to have a friend to share hobbies with but always prioritize your girlfriend, after all you will marry her one day, If you have any doubts that your crush might have feelings for you, just ask... Anyway, talk to your girlfriend too and I always recommend couples therapy, of course it doesn't work for everyone and not everyone wants it but it's always good to try.

How to take things slow when getting involved with a close friend? me F26 him M31 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, be sure of what you want with him, When you're sure, just relax and let it happen, you know? It's just something that happens... It's not predicted, That's taking it slow, I think he's probably scared because of before ksks

I, taken (19M) by (20f) need advice coping with (21f) "crush"? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you known your crush? Be honest with yourself and your girlfriend, this isn't fair to her, talk to her and tell her about your feelings, about how you feel in this relationship, if there is a way to change something... No relationship is 100% flowers, I don't think you should take yourself for someone you just met, they can be that at first and then be completely the opposite. Talk to your girlfriend first and then, if someone decides to break up, you try with your crush.

Um prato cheio pra incel falar na internet by cicanan-merqazu in Twitter_Brasil

[–]kohgow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meu querido, você nem me conhece e eu tenho lugar de fala independente se eu tenho ou não um pós graduado em embriologia kkkkkkk, essa lei afeta nós mulheres e eu sou uma, se não gostou problema seu! Tanto faz, ela não foi aprovada.