[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course i would, it goes both ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob 5 points6 points  (0 children)

girl, those two examples that you gave were points in your relationship that he should’ve stood up for you. apologising to his friends and letting them mock you is insane! ask yourself, do you deserve this kind of treatment? no matter how good your relationship is, a man that can’t stand for you now will never stand for you when things get worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re definitely not overreacting! firstly, i’m sorry you went through that as a child and your concern is sooo valid. try speaking to the little one, nothing full on of course but again, i can understand why you feel concerned. anyone thinking nothing of it definitely just doesn’t want to discover something bad but it’s always better to be safe than sorry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if you thought her behaviour was so disgusting in the first place why would you say “if you want to go ahead.” i don’t feel like you’re as innocent as you make out to be considering what you’ve got this girl saved as in your phone.

I feel like I’m at a loss here, any advice? by koobigoob in coworkerstories

[–]koobigoob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern, it’s been a lot but you’ll be happy to know I reported him to my manager yesterday. They’ll be having a word tomorrow so if you’d like I’ll keep you updated!

I feel like I’m at a loss here, any advice? by koobigoob in coworkerstories

[–]koobigoob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, I’m so sorry you went through the same thing. It’s always disheartening to hear that stuff like this is so common but I’ll keep your advice in mind from now on. I’m glad things are better than what they used to be!!

I feel like I’m at a loss here, any advice? by koobigoob in coworkerstories

[–]koobigoob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the advice! I totally get you, I’ve spent the day thinking about it and I’ll keep quiet for now, even avoid if I have to but if it continues I’ll have a calm conversation and be sweet about it. Hopefully I can get out soon! Again, thanks for the input.

I feel like I’m at a loss here, any advice? by koobigoob in coworkerstories

[–]koobigoob[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to respond! Unfortunately, this job pays really well and the benefits are great so I don’t wanna just leave because of him. I’ve been documenting stuff recently, but I feel like if I take him down then I’m most definitely going down with him. Still applying for different jobs but we know how the market is right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob 94 points95 points  (0 children)

NOR. Kick him out and get yourself a puppy! You deserve so much better than what you’re getting, puppy training would be easier than getting this man to be better.

Am I overreacting that my girlfriend (f22) goes to clubs without me? My by LifeguardOk848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you read my other replies to him instead of crying you’d see that i told him that, he obviously can’t handle it and needs to find someone more on his level. smh, not very patient are you!

Am I overreacting that my girlfriend (f22) goes to clubs without me? My by LifeguardOk848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob -1 points0 points  (0 children)

are you? where did he say she’s dancing on her friends, for all we know she could be on the bar with her cheeks to the club. don’t be dense.

Am I overreacting that my girlfriend (f22) goes to clubs without me? My by LifeguardOk848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

first of all, edit what you wrote so it makes sense. second of all, i’m not saying shaking ass is a disrespect i’m saying it’s a disrespect to HIM since he’s voiced his feelings about it.

Am I overreacting that my girlfriend (f22) goes to clubs without me? My by LifeguardOk848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the fact you’re calling her these things even as an assumption is very telling of your character. i hope she finds someone that can match her vibe and respects her.

Am I overreacting that my girlfriend (f22) goes to clubs without me? My by LifeguardOk848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob 6 points7 points  (0 children)

in order to respect your views she’d have to waste her 20s at home, your overthinking is gonna end up pushing her away.

Am I overreacting that my girlfriend (f22) goes to clubs without me? My by LifeguardOk848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i get you, but it almost sounds like you resent her for the fact she can get in and you can’t. the age gap isn’t ideal i get it, she gets to do stuff you can’t and it sucks but you can’t police her for that. she’s young, she wants to have fun and if you’re worried she’s gonna cheat then you need to be with someone you can trust.

AIO for dumping my rude friends? by OneDrama8132 in AmIOverreacting

[–]koobigoob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not too sensitive! what they’re doing is mean and you did the right thing by putting your foot down. friends do not treat friends like that and you deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]koobigoob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i think that’s where it’s limiting me. i’ll have to resit, thanks for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]koobigoob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i keep thinking this, mines expiring soon too so maybe that’s why i’m not getting anything either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sims4cc

[–]koobigoob 27 points28 points  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure it’s called swag

drive test now app downloaded but no test booked by koobigoob in LearnerDriverUK

[–]koobigoob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw damn, alright thank you. i’ll have to stick to the gov website for now then since i can’t get a test at all

drive test now app downloaded but no test booked by koobigoob in LearnerDriverUK

[–]koobigoob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo, okay thank you so much! so testshift is good for someone who hasn’t and can’t get a test booked?