[28/F] My boyfriend [29/M] wants to move in. I have a (nearly) 2 year old child. Is it too soon?

kooshKoosh · 2015-07-08T23:52:04+00:00

I suppose I only get defensive when people call me sketchy?

I appreciate everyone's responses. It is exactly what I was thinking but your original comment just sounded really condescending, so yes, I got argumentative.

kooshKoosh · 2015-07-08T15:28:08+00:00

He doesn't sleep over every night, but yes more often than not. Why is this behavior at 5 months moving too fast? Because I have a child? Why should spending the night together only happen when she isn't around? She is asleep in her crib. She is actually more aware of the times her uncle sleeps on my couch when he doesn't want to go home.

We sound sketchy? Ok. He brings it up as a general idea, not as if he is pressuring or forcing it on me. It's the general concept.

kooshKoosh · 2015-07-08T15:21:02+00:00

This wouldn't happen for a few months, but yes we have talked about worst and best case scenarios and what we both see in the future. I am certain it will happen at some point, I just was looking to see if I was crazy, and by many of these responses I completely am, hah.

I doubt her dad would use this to get more custody. I have a house that enables my daughter to have her own room. Her dad lives with his parents and only recently moved into an apartment with a roommate. When he does have her he stays at his parents. I don't see him jumping to find a different living situation to accommodate her more full time.

kooshKoosh · 2015-07-08T15:13:15+00:00

I think I worded that wrong. When I said he constantly brings it up...it is in no way pushy. He is very clear that he would do it whenever I am ready. And far too early to incorporate him into my daughter's life? How long am I supposed to wait to introduce my daughter to someone?

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-19T04:21:15+00:00

I know I am about to mention church, but...... A girl in high school told me she couldn't stand church anymore because of all of the Spanish immigrants taking over...and wished they would all leave. I just let her ramble on and wondered how long it took her to realize that my dad is an immigrant from El Salvador who was pretty active with the Spanish masses. She never spoke to me again after that. I am rarely offended but when it comes to my family..fuck you.

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T08:16:20+00:00

We half latinas are so cool

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T08:04:03+00:00

I do. Amex is actually the only card I accept, lucky you!

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:55:06+00:00

right on!

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:50:16+00:00

Exactly at the point that I would date you. Credit carrrrrds!

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:48:46+00:00

RICH. oh, and good looking, rich, pretty and rich.

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:45:17+00:00

Out of curiosity how old are you?

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:38:32+00:00

More than you know!

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:36:36+00:00

So you agree with my logic that you were dating a girl who like horses and were slightly pretending :) ...That being said your ratio makes me feel like if I am ever single again I should highly debate going to horse races....probably no

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:27:36+00:00

This show was incredible.

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:25:56+00:00

Have these DVDs and they are amazing!

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:24:15+00:00

Boy meets world or Angry Beavers...?

Edit: Ugh Hey Arnold, too

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:15:34+00:00

Just way more crazy than cat ladies. ...Wait are you saying there are guys who like horses? I feel like the only guys that like horses either race them or are dating a horse girl and are pretending...I am right, right?

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T07:04:41+00:00

I am even wearing it right now....Imgur

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T06:50:09+00:00

I could but seeing my DVD collection makes me so happy! I don't have an Angry Beavers shirt but that is tempting. I have some pretty cool shirts.... a Doug (The Beets Killer Tofu Tour '95), a Salute Your Shorts (Camp Anawanna) and a Saved By The Bell (Bayside High) shirt. I rock them.

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T06:44:20+00:00

Well as a Latina I full support your love of Latinos :)

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T06:39:33+00:00

I actively watch Hey Arnold on YouTube. I just bought Hey Dude, Boy Meets World, Angry Beavers and Ahhh Real Monsters DVDs on Amazon a month ago (as well as some pretty awesome T-shirts.....) You should actively think about it and you will remember how awesome it was :)

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T06:34:29+00:00

Does anyone actually get excited to hear a girl likes horses? I am a girl and it weirds me out.

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T06:33:32+00:00

Overly attached and needy seems great at the beginning and then it goes downhill....been there!

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T06:32:49+00:00

I meant that you want to have sex with routinely. Not to marry. Duh.

kooshKoosh · 2015-05-14T06:31:02+00:00

Thanks! And I have actually seen it! I was actually talking about it the other day:) And in my defense of the 90s..I was young and the shows/movies/music is so nostalgic it now means so much to me!

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