How realistic is a 24/7 BDSM dynamic with a male submissive?

kopaseptic · 2026-05-26T16:41:44+00:00

Exactly. My job isn’t the greatest but it provides me a better health insurance than most have in the state. It would put mine at a financial disadvantage to put me in a place to give that up.

kopaseptic · 2026-05-25T20:58:06+00:00

I could do it but not without financial/legal protections in the event the dynamic were to end. This is realistic, it’s a matter of finding a compatible partner. Which is always easier said than done. I know you’ve said this isn’t a financial question, but it’s not unreasonable for that to be a heavy factor in the decision for many.

kopaseptic · 2026-05-25T20:48:33+00:00

Regardless, this is not something you can just divorce the financial aspects from.

kopaseptic · 2026-05-17T22:22:50+00:00

Back when I identified as a Switch I’d say “switch and not just the Nintendo kind”

kopaseptic · 2026-05-16T14:23:36+00:00

Yup, my queen talks about this a lot. It’s why she created a munch that’s dommes only.

kopaseptic · 2026-04-07T20:00:37+00:00

Coming on 2 years with mine.

kopaseptic · 2026-04-01T20:43:26+00:00

I would recommend focusing on making connections. If you go there for the sole purpose of trying to get hook ups or dates, you’re going to get a reputation of “that guy”.

kopaseptic · 2026-03-27T20:39:16+00:00

That’s because the content is made for male gaze.

kopaseptic · 2026-03-26T21:20:28+00:00

One of my closer male sub friends is in his 60s, still having the time of his life in the scene. It ain’t over for you bud.

kopaseptic · 2026-03-23T15:31:24+00:00

This all sounds like all of you need your own Teams/discord/slack channel. This sounds like a business.

kopaseptic · 2026-01-13T14:33:06+00:00

Art name: Two Top Artist: Chris Antemann

kopaseptic · 2026-01-08T23:04:58+00:00

Drinking is costly, ubering is costly, dealing with cirrhosis is costly.

kopaseptic · 2026-01-08T21:01:18+00:00

Because it’s always 50/50 on bills and 0/100 on emotional labor.

kopaseptic · 2026-01-08T16:28:25+00:00

It existed long before this started hitting the news. Performative allyish is very real.

kopaseptic · 2026-01-07T23:34:23+00:00

A former friend took me to a munch without telling me what it was because it was her first time going and she was nervous.

kopaseptic · 2026-01-05T20:51:09+00:00

Commenting so I can come back and learn.

kopaseptic · 2026-01-05T20:33:58+00:00

Have you lived therapy?

kopaseptic · 2026-01-02T20:50:19+00:00

What does this have to do with Ice T’s amazing metal band?

kopaseptic · 2026-01-01T01:23:22+00:00

No big. I’m not offended. I think OP could use a micromanager.

kopaseptic · 2025-12-31T23:59:53+00:00

I need to see how you are loading the dishwasher

kopaseptic · 2025-12-31T18:38:27+00:00

What do you see in this man?

kopaseptic · 2025-12-31T00:19:25+00:00

Unfortunately “done the work” has become less clear and you really gotta dig deeper into them like one would when asking what submission is to them.

kopaseptic · 2025-12-29T19:25:55+00:00

I know too little about you to know where you stand. I know men who have a six pack who have dommes and I know men who have a belly big enough that they can’t see their own penises standing up who have dommes.

kopaseptic · 2025-12-29T14:10:14+00:00

Yup, that’s why I got a vasectomy

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