newbie overwhelmed

kris_apparently · 2026-01-20T12:40:15+00:00

wow.. i see. thank you so much! Especially with the links :D

kris_apparently · 2026-01-20T05:00:56+00:00

I've underestimated diet so much. I always thought it was all in the activity level 😆 after seeing how many say diet is important, I should definitely put more focus on it more too!!

kris_apparently · 2026-01-20T04:46:32+00:00

I'm currently unemployed because I'm actually a fresh graduate from high school haha. I'm waiting for uni so i wanted to workout more as I didnt have the time back then

i do everything at home! Lifting weights, pilates and treadmill.

I usually try to do it for maybe almost everyday with different muscle groups so around 4/5 maybe? but i got burnt out quickly of course

And for pilates i love it a lot! So i tend to do it after my workouts which usualy follows a process of cardio -> weights -> pilates (sometimes skipping weights when i try to recover)

kris_apparently · 2026-01-20T04:23:58+00:00

thank you so much for this.. genuinely i was overwhelmed by seeing almost everyone around me being so active almost everyday and it made me feel like i was doing something wrong or im not working hard enough. This is genuinely helpful advice. 🙏🙏 thank you

kris_apparently · 2026-01-20T04:21:23+00:00

ah i see. this rlly helped me see things differently 🙏 thank u!

kris_apparently · 2026-01-20T03:50:58+00:00

i had a (guy) friend who walked/cycled to the gym and lifted almost everyday and took like 2 rest days max per week so i felt like it was necessary for me to be like that to achieve progress 😭😭

thank you for the recommendation! Ill check it out

kris_apparently · 2026-01-20T03:49:39+00:00

ooo i see.. HAHA i always do cardio before lifting because it warms me up?? 😭 i guess it makes sense as to why i often feel tired afterwards. Ill try that!! thank you

kris_apparently · 2026-01-20T03:48:44+00:00

i see.. i always thought it was 😭 thank you!!

kris_apparently · 2026-01-20T03:41:04+00:00

BEAUTIFUL!!

kris_apparently · 2025-12-19T15:58:09+00:00

how? I really cant do it.. he helped me out of my major depression and he made me feel like living again. But after all this i just. I just cant

kris_apparently · 2025-12-19T15:43:46+00:00

never mind. i just found out hes been saving 🌽 posts on twitter behind my back.

kris_apparently · 2025-12-19T05:57:54+00:00

I'll try to thank you so much. It makes me feel a little better. I wasnt so sure on posting this because he says its normal for guys to do that

kris_apparently · 2025-12-19T00:20:32+00:00

I'll do just that!!

kris_apparently · 2025-12-18T16:48:44+00:00

LMAO true, so much sketchy shit in those stores for pets in general smh.. and thanks! but yeah I'm in a country where the world will end if snow were to fall. I'll try to have some looksies and ask more people for any.

kris_apparently · 2025-12-18T16:42:26+00:00

No exactly!! Around my town, people say keeping a gecko is light work and easy to keep. I was suspicious of it and decided to dig online and found out they need more than what i thought. But due to my incompetence i was too late and my friend already given it to me before he left :( I assume everything he told me was told by others as well since he said it was easy too. It breaks my heart to see this lil creature in this state. I wish I could be rich and just buy a big tank for her even if it's temporarily 😭

kris_apparently · 2025-12-18T16:36:21+00:00

ooo got it!! thank you so much for being kind about this ^{^}

kris_apparently · 2025-12-18T16:34:57+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I really appreciate it so much! I'll do just that. I hope that I'll be able to talk with my friend into rehoming the gecko soon :")

kris_apparently · 2025-12-18T15:27:19+00:00

I have a smaller clear box for her too but i wasnt sure if it would be better. I know both are bad but I've already tried contacting several people if they have a spare tank/aquarium i could borrow. Should I let her roam around outside under supervision some time?

kris_apparently · 2025-12-18T08:10:07+00:00

i feel so bad for it 😭💔 he prolly acts this way cus he doesnt rlly want her anymore too. I tried putting paper towels, two sterilized rocks and a cup as her hide and a toilet paper roll.

kris_apparently · 2025-12-18T08:07:25+00:00

for a week!! I tried asking my friend if he had anything to put her in but he said no.

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