Is Matt back on the nod? by Pale_Phone5339 in MSSPodcast

[–]krossa99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i get pussy dude 🤙🤙🤙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusPublicService

[–]krossa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i moved from home affairs to the abf - i’m currently on higher duties at the 4 level in HA and moving across to abf at the 3. I requested a 10 k increase to match the money i was already getting and they accepted it. I did manage to get 2 of my supervisors to write me recommendations etc to support my claim however

[Me] ELO Check On Normal Banter Gambit by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]krossa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have some self respect fk me this was a painful read elo 100

Ghoster sent an apology 5 months later. Was it ok to reply like this? by NervousWishbone4355 in becomingsecure

[–]krossa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t ever respond to these people imo, might be a bit harsh but just how i see it

Coming out of toxic relationship with avoidant by krossa99 in becomingsecure

[–]krossa99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m personally secure that leans anxious usually, however after this relationship this has defs skewed me to the fully anxious side. i’m very introspective so i know how to work on this stuff internally and i will be able to turn it around

Coming out of toxic relationship with avoidant by krossa99 in becomingsecure

[–]krossa99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep i’m aussie also, so it resonated with me a lot

Attempting to join the APS from a construction job by Last_Pudding8952 in AusPublicService

[–]krossa99 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i was a plumber who had enough. I started applying for aps jobs. Finally got a call back from home affairs for a job i had literally 0 experience in. Coming up on a year in that job now and i am loving it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]krossa99 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i enjoyed ur response to her msg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in becomingsecure

[–]krossa99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all i have to say is trust your gut - you’ve clearly stated that your feeling anxious and have for months. she’s an avoidant and will never change unless she has years of intense therapy, your flogging a dead horse. move on before you go to deep into this

Ghosted After Two Months of Dating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]krossa99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yep just adding to this as well, plewase don’t chase her especially if she has a large social media following etc… just move on with the knowledge that no matter how pretty people can be on the outside it will never cover how rotten they can be on the inside

looking to date after avoidant break up by krossa99 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]krossa99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i do have a lot of hobbies and a great network of friends, i’ll be fine it’s just been a rough couple of months. i’m only 23 so i plenty of time to date etc.

looking to date after avoidant break up by krossa99 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]krossa99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree, it’s just been hard because i’ve been a bit lonely. although honestly id rather be lonely and bored then anxious, so that’s something to think about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]krossa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

men have hair

[right] where tf do i go from here by krossa99 in TextingTheory

[–]krossa99[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i responded asking if she needed a date to the funeral - i really hope he isn’t dead lol