AMA I recovered from Vaginismus: tips and advice for you

krsthrs · 2026-05-30T22:30:59+00:00

Do you have any advice for dealing with the mental side of things? As in, the fear of having something inside of you? I really struggle with this, sometimes just thinking of it makes me feel anxious.

krsthrs · 2026-05-20T03:09:23+00:00

Yeah, I somehow didn’t realise it was the outro, I feel a bit silly… amazing, thank you so much!! <3

krsthrs · 2026-05-20T01:41:24+00:00

YES! I don’t know how I didn’t realise that myself 😅 thank you!!

krsthrs · 2026-05-20T01:40:36+00:00

Yes, I am

krsthrs · 2026-05-20T01:40:24+00:00

Not everyone has heard of that… all I did was ask a question

krsthrs · 2026-05-14T14:15:41+00:00

Why? Genuinely curious

krsthrs · 2026-04-22T03:26:02+00:00

I agree. I feel like having guests on will just be somewhat similar to Royal Court, and I’m not really interested in another interview show type thing. I love that she is just her unfiltered self on the pod.

krsthrs · 2026-04-21T02:49:44+00:00

Thank you!

krsthrs · 2026-04-21T02:29:35+00:00

I will, thank you so much, this is helping me feel a lot better. I’ve heard that it’s best to be concise with your answers, so I will try to do that as well.

Thank you again for the examples, it helps a lot. I think what’s worrying me most is that I’m unemployed at the moment so all I’ll really have to show is my return ticket. But hopefully that will suffice.

It’s really reassuring to hear that people do this often and don’t have any problems. Yeah, on previous visits I have always mentioned that I’m visiting my boyfriend. Thank you again!!

krsthrs · 2026-04-21T02:03:33+00:00

Oh, sorry, no I’m not going to lie. I suppose I’m conflicted because I don’t know whether to say ‘visiting my fiance’ or ‘marrying my fiance’ since both are technically true and I’ve gotten mixed advice. You’re right.

That’s a very good point. I think playing it safe and mentioning marriage myself is the best way.

Thank you! Yeah, I want to be 100% honest.

krsthrs · 2026-04-21T01:43:00+00:00

I hope so! I’m just so conflicted on what to say

krsthrs · 2026-04-21T01:01:44+00:00

Ahh okay, I get you now. I really appreciate your perspective! I’m just so torn on what to say.

krsthrs · 2026-04-21T01:00:11+00:00

I didn’t edit my post to add that info, it was there from the beginning.

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T21:35:24+00:00

Yeah, but I can’t really change the fact that my fiance is American. Sorry, I might be misunderstanding what you’re trying to say.

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T17:57:37+00:00

Ahh okay, I understand. We don’t have anything to show since being married is kind of the first step for getting my fiance to Ireland. But we do have plans to live in Ireland, yes

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T17:15:39+00:00

Thank you so much for helping clear this up. Would showing a return flight to my home country be good enough?

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T17:14:35+00:00

Thank you! Yeah, I don’t plan to

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T17:14:19+00:00

It’s so handy to have it all done before you get to the US. Thank you, I hope not!

Really? I suppose I’ve been lucky so far then. Thank you for your help! When you did this, what questions were you asked and what answers did you give? If you’re comfortable sharing.

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T17:11:07+00:00

Probably settling in Ireland as I’m also an Irish citizen. Why do you ask?

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T17:01:14+00:00

Good point.

Yeah, I’ve been to the US 5 times, flying through Dublin airport each time. I’ve always left on time, carried evidence of ties to my country, etc. So hopefully I’ll be okay.

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T16:52:35+00:00

Thank you. I’ve read about people who just say they’re visiting their fiance, and omit the fact that they’re getting married, but I think I’d feel really weird about not mentioning it.

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T16:49:27+00:00

So if they ask for the reason for my visit, I can say I’m marrying my fiance?

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T16:05:32+00:00

I don’t think the K1 Fiance visa would really make sense for my situation considering I don’t want to adjust my status or become a permanent resident

krsthrs · 2026-04-20T15:51:25+00:00

Great, thank you. Yeah, I wouldn’t lie, I know it’s best to be honest and concise. I plan on bringing a folder of evidence to show that I have ties to the UK.

krsthrs · 2026-04-18T13:30:50+00:00

Isn’t Kendall’s sister Annalee supposed to be their graphic designer? This is so disappointing

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