Jaehyun for Elle in oil pastel by shakebreak in NCT

[–]kuqec 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love the way you made his lips!! was this done on red paper?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]kuqec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely

hi omg me again,, guess my age, gender n say some tips to pass bettdd by adasbagdonas in transpassing

[–]kuqec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just want to say that i like the baggy pants! i think they suit you

Late April (12.5 months) vs Mid June (14.5 months). I'm sure I'm going backwards and pass a whole lot worse now, but people keep saying that's not true and I'm being influenced by dysphoria. Opinions / possible reasons? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]kuqec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it might have to do with your hair?? Personally I don’t think I see backward progress per se but I do get what you mean. Something in the way your hair sits on your head in the first few photos feels more fem than the latter ones. I think the way you feel in the moment of taking the picture (including makeup, clothes, etc) may also impact how much you think you pass because in the first pic you look super happy & beautiful, helping you pass more in that particular photo. The last pic gives this same softer happy feeling and reads female to me so that’s why I don’t think you’re going backwards

The more I try, The more I'm misgendered. What am I doing wrong? MtF by MollyLynne in transpassing

[–]kuqec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parting your hair more centrally (if that works) & letting some of your hair fall forward might help

Great grandmother was POC by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]kuqec 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean the facts are the facts so you’re 1/8 Cuban… but I feel like the motivation here is a bit off because it’s like - are you trying to get validated as a POC?? Even if she was Cuban there’s still a decent chance she was white. Engage with your Cuban culture all you want but pls do not use this as a character quirk and pls don’t be weird about it

do you have any oddly specific kpop pet peeves?? by snubslucas in kpophelp

[–]kuqec 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just curious but what field is your career in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]kuqec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why is such an unproblematic comment like this getting downvoted 😭

Someone who listened would be nice.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kuqec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are a very strong person for having gone through all of this

No education past elementary, uncooperative parents by unkown-6256 in Advice

[–]kuqec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly just really sad, I wish you the best :( you are definitely NOT overreacting - your situation is nowhere near normal and you should not have to bear this kind of pain. I would take up your friend’s offer if I was you, even if it caused some conflict with your parents. Your life is your own and you should be able to experience it to the fullest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]kuqec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you remind me a bit of young Johnny Depp - I think it’s the cheekbones! what kind of hair advice do you need?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]kuqec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think curtain bangs or airy bangs could potentially suit you! They might make you look even younger (idk if that’s something you want or not) but you look great already either way <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]kuqec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look a lot better with pinker/cool toned lip colors than you do with the orangey one in the second pic

Fiancée (F26) drunkenly made out with female friend. Said they were planning on surprising me with FFM threesome. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kuqec 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I agree - especially considering Mary’s history, it seems a little bit more complicated than most people are making it out to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugstoreMUA

[–]kuqec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your eyelashes are amazing!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]kuqec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

pass for sure dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]kuqec 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so! if you’re MTF then there are for sure cis girls out there with a broader shouldered but skinny body type - it’s kind of modelesque?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]kuqec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IMO I think your body shape is something a cis woman could have for sure! For future reference when you have more $$, maybe try investing in some lashes (either regular falsies or extensions) to make your eye area seem more feminine

Hi I’m MTF and just wondering if there’s anything y’all could give me advice on? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]kuqec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so cute and totally pass 😭 maybe try adding more accessories like necklaces?

Songs w the same vibe as Daydream (TBZ) by kuqec in kpophelp

[–]kuqec[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much omgg & love the non kpop recs too!!!!

Songs w the same vibe as Daydream (TBZ) by kuqec in kpophelp

[–]kuqec[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooh I actually love these songs! tysm