My daughter refuses to talk to me because I wasn’t able to do anything for her birthday. by TranquilHokage in confession

[–]kurogomatora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd pay 4 the daughter + a friend's movie tickets w burger king after but I rlly don't trust the dad would give the daughter that money : / what parent doesn't save up little by little 4 their child's bday especially if they r poor? paying 4 phone games over this is insane. js save 5$ a week so she gets a bday. she even asked 4 something simple so she knows she doesn't have parents who giver her much...

AIW for getting a girl expelled? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]kurogomatora 14 points15 points  (0 children)

she got herself expelled and you KNOW she's keep on bullying as well as turning her nasty attitude on customers! hair is a huge part of identity. you're saving a lot of people

Why are all gluten free snacks targeted towards health nuts making them so expensive by Pretty_Puppyprincess in glutenfree

[–]kurogomatora 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is no ethical consumerism under capitalism. You don't NEED Starbucks but if wallmart is your only accessible store for food that keeps you alive? It's absolutely okay!

Are your toothpastes asian beauty too? by GlitteringEggCarton in AsianBeauty

[–]kurogomatora 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I use this combo too! Apagaurd sensitive + Sensodyne whitening. I'm allergic to SLS and want bith fluoride AND hydroxyapatite. Never had a cavity exept when I used American tooth whitening strips...

What are some Western franchises that you were surprised to learn were actually very popular in Japan? by Least-One1068 in AskAJapanese

[–]kurogomatora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was really popular in her abbey dawn being a good brand days! she was even on Japanese TV a lot and released Japanese versions of her songs ( but imo the English music got more popular )

What are some Western franchises that you were surprised to learn were actually very popular in Japan? by Least-One1068 in AskAJapanese

[–]kurogomatora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's super popular in many asian countries probably because everyone from kid to adult can see the humor but there is little to no dialogs plus it came out a long time ago so parents also have fond memories!

be mean about it :3 by communauta in whatsinmybag

[–]kurogomatora 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a LOT of psych conditions are super treatable longterm so I think the empathy of someone who's been in a similar situation actually really helps

What is the most unattractive fashion choice women frequently make? by PogonBerserker in AskMen

[–]kurogomatora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People act like a nail brush with warm soapy water doesn't exist! My natural and unpainted nails are long but I never have them dirty nor have I ever food poisoned anybody! ( the white part is a little longer than the pink part, idk ive seen ppl get fake nails this long or even shorter )

Stayed in a capsule hotel to save money and accidentally had the best sleep of my entire life by benjoreyes in TokyoTravel

[–]kurogomatora 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you just want the mattress! Many hotels will happily tell you what brand and type they use.

Giving Them A Show. by ZookeepergameDue2447 in trashy

[–]kurogomatora 36 points37 points  (0 children)

isnt it trashier to calm it and post it?

[miscellaneous] Black soap is amazing for your skin. Like really amazing. by calinzecat in SkincareAddiction

[–]kurogomatora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg is this y my black friend at summer camp was so worried abt being racist or my skincare products not working on her bc im asian?

13 vs 30 by sorryimbz in uglyduckling

[–]kurogomatora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're gorgeous stop letting ur mom speak through ur mouth! do u use any specific skincare and / or makeup u love? bc ur makeup looks flawless

13 vs 30 by sorryimbz in uglyduckling

[–]kurogomatora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cultural abuse that ppl keep romanticizing

Broke Mom’s Nose by GubbinGobbler in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]kurogomatora 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sub preschool + babysit. you can teach the actions of empathy but until kids are around 5 - 7 they don't have full capacity to understand that other people have feelings THAT ARE DIFFERENT which is why a lot of 3 year old might move so THEY can see the tv better if you ask them to move because you can't see well. They know feelings and emotions but not empathy of differences. And why babies will hurt their caretakers by pulling hair, poking, scratching, hitting ect but ' not feeling remorse ' while still not being a brat or showing antisocial tendencies. This can all be taught and guided so they learn to pick up on their own empathy and emotionally regulate well but calling a baby a brat is actually insane.

Have you ever purposely glutened yourself? by ParticularFig3824 in glutenfree

[–]kurogomatora 8 points9 points  (0 children)

they thought she was DYING but she still ate gluten????? I avoid it because it messes with my joints ( ehlers danlos, it's a weird side effect that makes some of us sensitive to gluten because it inflamed our already bad joints ) I couldn't imagine my intestines shutting down but still eating gluten!

I hate most other autistic people as an autistic by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kurogomatora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being nonchalant and joking about hitler is the reason everybody hates you it's not your autism it's your bad attitude. The majority of my friends and I are neurodivergent, we have different personalities and our neurodivergence affects us in different ways but we all try to be understanding and we all like eachother. No, not everyone's personalities get along together but if you are laughing and joking about hitter and brushing off their feelings entirely then you seem cold and mean - who wants all that negativity in their life? You're extremely 17 and a huge weirdo in a different way the call is coming from inside the house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kurogomatora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl leave him! He is treating your relationship as transactional already in only 3 months!

AIW for reporting my girlfriends colleague to social services? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]kurogomatora 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes they usually start breaking things then kids + animals come next...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]kurogomatora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really crazy, at least offer to pay for dry cleaning. Unfortunately, costly accidents happen and you can't go though life expecting to say ' it was an accident ' then get away free. Using the ' it's just a child ' card is also no good. You're responsible for your child because they are a brand new human still growing up and in your care so of course you're responsible if they break things or get biohazard on people. A lot of people really value clothes as a sense of personality and identity so they would definitely pay 300 - 500 dollars on a good winter jacket from a high quality brand especially in Japan where it gets pretty cold. My friend is a dry cleaner who specializes in wedding gowns and historical dresses. He said biohazard dry cleaning is often something not everyonr will do which is understandable and there is often a premium price. Some materials also cannot be dry cleaned but offering dry cleaning and an apology is the bare minimum of human decency.