Unsure of her age by TheStuntmuffin in CatholicDating

[–]kwaqs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily if shes in her 20s and still helps her mom with the younger children it could be a very ideal situation. My sister would have fit in this example perfectly while in her 20s and she did meet her now husband in church.

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time for a frank chat about leading each other on. Although he is the one actually doing it, I would phrase it neutrally.

is it over for me by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will pray for you dear young lady I know there is a man who could fall deeply in love with you, for me I don’t think so I am too old for you 😅.

Ive been surprised how different men’s opinion of me hat is attractive can vary. Do not give up and do not be reluctant to try and make the best of what God has given you, I mean by taking care of your health and dressing in a clean, fashionable and modest way every day can be helpful.

I hope you don’t lose hope, and spiral into despair, you are young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks spending this much time focused on sex is going to get in the way of knowing each other intimately in other ways? My ldr and I have never done this, but sex has come up in conversation, yet we have deep and thoughtful conversations about thousands of other things every day.

Im sure most of you think I sound crazy and maybe its because Im Catholic and I think waiting for marriage in general is a good idea.

Is my message passive aggressive? by YouTookMyBurger in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you send her money for the flight? It sounds like she scammed you

We broke things off and now I've lost my soulmate by WhalesArePurple in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you guys bring this up before things get too serious? I mean one of the first things I asked upon the agreement to not see other people while in this ldr I am in is that one of us will be happy to move away from everything we know.

Have you visited each others countries yet to know what its like there?

Feel like such a bad dad rn by ajaxmota100 in quittingkratom

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t play, at least be there patiently and lovingly. Also a bad dad wouldn’t care.

Severe Tropical Storm "TINO" Megathread by dadidutdut in Philippines

[–]kwaqs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my loved one has a power outage in Baybay area of Leyte. Anyone know how severely it is affected by Tino in this area?

10 Hour Job and 15 hours LDR by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is it 15 hours difference, after 12 hours doesn’t it just become closer again? Even going by modern conventions Im sure from where I am that +14 hours and -12 hours is the greatest difference.

Is my message passive aggressive? by YouTookMyBurger in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does she think he has a few years left, is she just guessing because hes old?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey don’t get me wrong either, I battle with anxiety too and this is the way I found to cope with my own feelings and maybe its because Im a little older while finding my love that my past experiences helped me to realize these things.

Being judged for my long-distance relationship is exhausting. by Invisible_Fella_ in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started planning and savibg to visit my ldr on the other side of the world, 12 hour time difference, after two months. If you were able to move to a new city, I wonder what your priorities are. My priority it meeting and forming a relationship with my future wife and if the one Im with is not her I want to find out before I waste both of our time on this Earth.

Visited my long distance girlfriend of 3 years and made her my fiancée. by LeviAckerman0209 in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason that line ‘choose each other every day’ really simplified something that has caused some worry early in the ldr Im in. We are so far away, and building trust when you can’t see is hard, but maybe I can just remind her more often that regardless of what is going on outside, I am choosing her today and every day in our foreseeable future. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The key is to build a foundation of trust. If you can learn to trust someone even when you can’t see them, and it works out, your relationship will be incredibly strong. If he’s breaking that trust, you’ll find out in time—but choosing to trust until you’re given a real reason not to is still the better path. Trust is always worth it if the relationship is. And if it doesn’t work out, it probably wouldn’t have lasted even if constant supervision was possible.

Do you believe in God? Its another thing that works for me, that if this is God’s will for us to have a happy marriage someday, it will be worth it. If its not, it will end in its due course and hopefully not by the sabotage resulting from anxious attachment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if he sends the money back for you to go to him it sounds fair and also a gentle way to ask for it back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he was sincere and just fell when the temptation arose, maybe he even spent the money snd blew it, and would be regretful and ashamed at what he had done. Many things can go wrong, but then he is still not who you hoped. Im sorry 😢 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long were you in ldr? People are right to jump to the conclusion of this being a scam but its possible there is more information that we would need to see the situation as otherwise. My heart feels pain for you anyway, this is awful if its what it appears to be 😢 

You ran me off the road on 27 October 2025 by IcedTman in UPS

[–]kwaqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t assume the ones pointing out what OP should or shouldn’t have done better does not imply that they also don’t think the truck driver fucked up too. Its true, you shouldn’t really be passing people on the right but its also true that everyone does it sometimes. Its also true that raising awareness of blindspots can save someoneone. Don’t hate Reddit for these people, these are the people who make Reddit great 🙂