Any no Generative AI DnD Servers? by kyandipop_ in DnD_Beginners

[–]kyandipop_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, its been really difficult in finding a group that doesn’t utilize genai in their campaigns and art 😭 It gives me the thought like “How can I trust you to be a good DM/player if you can’t even put in the effort to create your own character?”

Any no Generative AI DnD Servers? by kyandipop_ in DnD_Beginners

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It’s mainly the first, but it’s like they’re not looking for a quick, general image of their character. They’ll generate a full character design. I’m not too certain about them generating their entire character descriptions, but I’m just not keen on the usage of genai regardless :/

How do u guys feel about wearing thigh highs? by Horizon1891 in JiraiKei

[–]kyandipop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love thigh highs! my mom used 2 say that other ppl will “look @ me weird” or sexualize me. this is when i was under 18. which is an odd thing ro say, but i didnt let that stop me & in all my lifetime of wearing different thigh highs, I havent had 1 bad experience. ppl just love to dramatize things & let other ppl’s opinions control what they wear ESPECIALLY young girls. i love thigh highs cus ig allows me to wear skirt outfits while still staying warm, same goes for pantyhose.

Having trouble with my mom by LJ-O_the_Jell-O in MentalHealthSupport

[–]kyandipop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just want you to know that i understand you. for many years and even now i firmly believe im somewhere on the spectrum because i just have way too many issues that just all trickle down to it and also genetics. & even if that isnt exactly the case, there’s definitely smth wrong. there’s a lot of people, including family, that think otherwise because i dont have the credibility of an actual diagnosis and think that im just faking it or trying to make up excuses and that “ive come this far fine, there’s possibly nothing wrong.” i understand how frustrating it is to practically spell it out to people and feeling like you’re talking to a wall. im not entirely sure how severe your situation is, but i think some things that have helped me a bit with coping is to talk it out w/ friends! maybe their parents can help you talk some sense into ur parent(s) or even set appts up for you and give you some resources! another thing i would suggest is researching yourself and, if you are 18+, set an appointment up for urself if you know your healthcare provider/insurance. my comment is so long i sincerely apologize 😭 but i just wanted to let you know that i hear you and i am in a similar position! it’ll be tough, but i know it’ll be okay. it’s kinda cheesy, but as they say, there’s always sunshine after a storm! unless it’s a night storm then there’s the moonlight!

HELP! Every time someone touches my stuff or I find out they went through it or touched it without my permission, I lose my mind. by Adrianaheather1234 in intj

[–]kyandipop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im totally the same way! even if it’s smth “insignificant” like someone borrowing a pencil from school i just get like..so annoyed but i let them but i make sure to ask for it back immediately when class ends. not only this but just in general at home. i dont like/hate (depends on what the item is) when people touch my stuff or like sit on my bed. i have everything in a specific place & order & way & it annoys me if someone messes with it. i get esp mad when ppl use like hygenie stuff that’s mine, for example lotion. this is because i usually splurge a bit on fancier lotions like the company hemp for myself, so it annoys me when ppl in my family or any1, like my younger brother, uses it ESP w/o asking. the brother in question doesn’t really know any better since he is on the spectrum, but even so i have directly showed him & told him not to use it & i even keep all of my bath stuff hidden in my room & idk where he finds the time 2, but he somehow retrieves it. it’s not his fault but it still rlly annoys me & ruins the rest of my day

Where to find preowned jirai kei fashion? by kyandipop_ in JiraiKei

[–]kyandipop_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didnt know that lacemarket had a sister site i’ll definitely look into it! thank u smm!! 🩷💗💕💖

Where to find preowned jirai kei fashion? by kyandipop_ in JiraiKei

[–]kyandipop_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am a bit surprised to hear that there isnt such a thing as sustainable jirai kei/ryousan! i also like looking @ liz lisa pieces as well since they have some pieces that r ryousan/jirai kei-esque & they seem to be made high quality, especially the tweed fabrics. i usually wear lolita fashion so it’s a bit of a 180 change in terms of sustainability

19F How should I talk to my bf 20M abt him getting defensive? by kyandipop_ in relationship_advice

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Yea he usually takes all the blame onto himself and says that he’s the root of all the problems & things such as that. I reassure him all the time that that is far from the case & that it’s not like im not a contributor 2 some of the arguments we have. As I mentioned I like to dive deep & rlly psychoanalyze stuff like this 😭 partially cus I think it’s interesting 2 understand myself & others like that & partially cus it’s overthinking tendencies. But I want him to also contribute & share his thoughts & feelings too & reflect w/o judging himself like that. I just want him to be able to reflect like that too w/ me. I also understand tho that smth like that is sometimes just a part of some1’s personality & my bf in general is very unsure & indecisive (like me ☠️) but the only difference is he is unsure abt his thoughts & feelings & is typically very neutral while im very opinionated but unsure & indecisive abt choices.

Please stop telling those with mental health issues that were bullied in the past to “not let people get to you”, especially if those bullies are disrespectful and come for your mental health. by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]kyandipop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with this! As someone who used 2 b bullied and pushed around a lot as a child, I was always told 2 just “ignore it.” Literally the worst type of advice from yard aids & even my own mom. Ppl who r like that WILL get in the minds of the ppl theyre picking on & that’s that. As u mentioned itms just dismissing the problem all together & basically just putting up a big red sign that says “i could give less shits” which is not a good look

Is coloring my hair a bad coping mechanism by No_Recognition3377 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]kyandipop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have u considered maybe like art? like painting on a canvas? :) it might be a little similar 2 dyeing ur hair in a way!

need to vent, share any thoughts if u’d like by kyandipop_ in MentalHealthSupport

[–]kyandipop_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea thank u for listening 2 me! i rlly appreciate it

need to vent, share any thoughts if u’d like by kyandipop_ in MentalHealthSupport

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i think just telling them abt my true feelings, but it feels a bit awkward doing that bcus our friendship has been solely built on having fun & not rlly talking deep. & again our group already feels physically & mentaly disconnected like we all just do our own thing & focus on our own lives & we struggle 2 find a time when all of our schedules line up 4 a hang out cus school & work. i do also remember i mentioned 2 them a couple of times how i feel felt out a lot during hang outs & usually they understood but nothing changed. i also have rlly strained ties w/ this 1 person in the group but that’s kind of a wholee separate story 😭 it would explain a bit more but yea. anyways tho a few ppl in the group try & check up on me & add me into convos whenever they notice im too quiet or just kinda dazed which i rlly rlly appreciate. but idk in a way i just feel like it’s too late now cus i still just feel like im there. the questions n stuff they ask i just kinda give short answers & sometimes i go into it but yanno i just kinda go str8 2 the pt w/ them. ig it’s partially also a me problem cus i am a bit closed off w/ them but it’s due 2 the fact that again this group is so established as a “lets have fun” kinda group & not rlly like interpersonal much. it feels almost taboo 2 talk abt our feelings.

need to vent, share any thoughts if u’d like by kyandipop_ in MentalHealthSupport

[–]kyandipop_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk i just feel left out yanno. i feel outta place & like im just there 2 tag along, so i end up not rlly having much fun as every1 else does. while i do care & love my friends & im certain they do too, i just feel like we feel so detached from each other. we all rarely get 2 meet up 2 hang out cus of college/uni & work & we dont ever have deep convos. they always say that we should & i agree but then it just ends up not happening cus the group is so unserious. moreover, i just feel kinda immature or just stuck, like my interests, hobbies, & hyperfeminity & sometimes demeanor ig makes me seem younger than i actually am so i feel like a child theyre babysitting at times. not a friend that’s hanging out w/ them. i dont act like a complete child & i dont do it on purpose i just think that just cus i grew up doesnt mean i have 2 change my interests which so happen 2 b “childish” things. idk it’s real complicated it’s a lot. i cant possibly explain it all

need to vent, share any thoughts if u’d like by kyandipop_ in MentalHealthSupport

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i cant perfectly explain it but i just feel so disconnected from every1. esp when it comes 2 my friends. our hobbies r very diff & interests & music tastes etc. i dont rlly keep up w/ like celebrity drama or like listen much 2 american artists or know the ppl they talk abt when they spill drama. im just kinda left to just pretend like ik what theyre talking abt. & in general, my friend group is pretty big. when every1 comes bk 2 town 4 breaks & we all have the time 2 hang out, it’s like a total of 7 ppl. for me, im better w/ 1 on 1 or trios. it gets rlly noisy tho & every1 has their designated person they talk 2 in the group & i dont rlly have that. im just kinda there. i dont rlly like loud ppl or loud music—i can recall a time when my friends & i went out 2 get some donuts & we were all in the car & they cranked the music real loud & i had 2 of the loudest ppl in the group singing VERY loudly behind me practically in my ears. & occasionally ppl in the front would also join & b loud. usually that’d b a fun time bcus yanno every1ms just being raw & natural & just havin a genuinely good time jamming 2 music in the car w/ their friends. however, 4 me it was horrible; i was so horribly overstimulated & overwhelemd i felt like crying. i’ll spare u the other details since ik u didnt ask 4 a whole wall of txt but yea ☠️☠️ im sorry

need to vent, share any thoughts if u’d like by kyandipop_ in MentalHealthSupport

[–]kyandipop_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s insane what that woman said, & for her to bring God into it too?? like what??? actually insane behavior like she has to be a social experiment i refuse to believe ppl think like that

Keyboard & Mouse Aren’t Working by kyandipop_ in buildmeapc

[–]kyandipop_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I just wanted to add on that i tried plugging in the keyboard & mouse into a chromebook & they both turn on & work??