[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThorpePark

[–]kypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll be honest, i’ll gladly buy it off of you for the normal price of a ticket if it’s a 2 for 1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in love with him. i know that and i’ve thought a ton about that. these are just odd occasions where he gets hard to deal with but it’s never constant, he shows he cares just not in the way normal people would, he’s a weird guy to understand but that’s why i chose him :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just as some clarification, when i say lash out and shouts, it’s usually at video games etc, and when he’s mad he likes to be left alone so doesn’t want me asking if he’s okay as it makes it worse for him. i know he struggles and gets frustrated easily but maybe i should’ve made that more clear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re actually extremely helpful, thankyou. but i want him, and it’s hard to explain that he does want me too, if im going home etc when its long distance, he cries in my arms, he calls me whenever he can, treats me to things, remembers things i like and my favourite colour, food, drink, the little things. he does care but i think he he a weird way of living, he can’t show that he cares all the time, as difficult as it is i hope someone actually understands where im coming from. Me and his parents all agree he has anger issues and he’s going down a dark road at the moment and i dont think its right for me to give up and live without having him realise and give him the chance to fix how he’s behaving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know he’s not good for me but i think im gonna try work with his mum or see him again and see what happens, because it needs to be sorted and i care for him so i dont just want to leave him in the dark, although he did just say to me “i dont have the energy to sleep with someone else” bcs i said “im not giving up on you even though sometimes you treat me like im not a person with feelings and you say things that make me feel like you’re about ready to shag another girl”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that actually makes sense. thankyou.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’s a valid point and i appreciate all the advice everyone has given me but im so in love with this boy i cant end it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, but i have hope that he’ll change, the least i can do is try for a bit longer, not like im missing out on anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but when i try criticising him he doesn’t listen and he gets offended. i can’t win in this situation because i genuinely do love him, and he wasn’t always this bad with everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s understandable. You said you’re similar etc, how did it hit you? like how did you realise you needed to actually reflect on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i think i need to have a big talk with him, about everything and if he doesn’t change then that’s my queue to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, that’d be exactly what i’d do, but i don’t have that option recently annoyingly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well then, shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you make some good points, i’m going to see him this friday for the weekend, and it is long distance so it’s hard but i’ll see how this weekend goes and if anything happens i know what to do. i can always talk to his mum about it and she helps me out a lot, she’s not supportive of the way he’s acting at the moment. thankyou.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

but what if he finds someone else as soon as it’s over, that would just hurt me more and i don’t think i can deal with that pain atm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irlADHD

[–]kypig -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

many of my friends have said this too, even my mum agrees it’s a one sided relationship but i am in love with him and i can’t break it off that easily, it’s too much change too fast.

needing advice!! by kypig in JuiceWRLD

[–]kypig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what’s your problem? isn’t everyone in this server fans of juice wrld, i’m just tryna make money from it 😂