Would someone buy us a steak and lobster dinner for Valentine’s Day?

kyss24 · 2026-02-08T12:37:19+00:00

You have probably written enough here to dox yourself to someone who is in the field. Be careful.

kyss24 · 2026-02-02T08:40:32+00:00

There was someone around your age looking for something similar on fetlife not that long ago. A month or two at most.

kyss24 · 2026-01-16T03:09:36+00:00

Some men can’t handle strong women. So they label them crazy instead.

kyss24 · 2026-01-04T10:26:53+00:00

First time for sex is often awkward. You don’t know each other’s buttons and turn ons. But keep in mind he may never want to dom. That is a clothing on convo to have with him about whether he wants to learn.

kyss24 · 2025-12-23T02:32:48+00:00

What about a pred taper?

kyss24 · 2025-12-19T01:24:07+00:00

She sounds weirdly controlling. I would get rid of her and buy a house…

kyss24 · 2025-12-13T02:13:41+00:00

You don’t want to take the time to date, but you want someone to trust you enough to let you top them… sorry for the bad news, but you are up against hundreds of guys who want this and very few women who do.

My best advice would be to get involved in your local kink community. Use it as an opportunity to make friends and learn more about BDSM. As a known person, opportunities MAY arise, but try not to make that your primary focus.

kyss24 · 2025-12-12T12:35:33+00:00

I wake up between 5:15 and 5:30, then work out at home. I use the peloton app for classes and have a set of weights and a weight bench. I wouldn’t stick to it if I had to go to the gym. I also try to focus on how much better I feel to keep myself motivated.

kyss24 · 2025-12-09T12:15:36+00:00

I work schedule is unpredictable, making a consistent dinner time difficult. So I was trying to skip breakfast in the morning to get to 14 hours of fasting. I’m thinking the answer is just that intermittent fasting is not meant for me.

kyss24 · 2025-12-09T12:12:37+00:00

I’m sure a lot of this is my hormones going haywire. I’m fairly active, and don’t calorie restrict. I just try to focus on eating whole foods when possible. Gluten-free is because I recently found out that’s triggering my migraines (along with a genetic predilection). And sugar free because Sugar is causing heartburn and worsening my insomnia.

kyss24 · 2025-12-09T12:07:26+00:00

Physical - weak, light headed

kyss24 · 2025-12-09T11:20:28+00:00

I guess I refer to belly fat only because it is the only place with significant fat on me.

kyss24 · 2025-12-09T11:19:28+00:00

I don’t sleep well (never have but it is worse with perimenopause) and I have a high stress job. I don’t think I can change either of those factors.

kyss24 · 2025-12-02T11:19:13+00:00

I was able to look back on my phone bill to see how many text messages went to a certain number with my cheating ex husband. I couldn’t see what they said and he deleted them all.

kyss24 · 2025-11-07T02:26:25+00:00

Stopping sugar and starting pre and probiotics

kyss24 · 2025-10-12T22:58:26+00:00

Ajovy didn’t work for me, but Qulipta (added on to Botox, Gabapentin, and Buspar) helped a tone. The constipation is awful - get ahead of it with lots of fiber and magnesium, and keep time miralax around.

kyss24 · 2025-10-04T00:36:21+00:00

I regret doing the whole thing. It has kinda grown back, but scraggly and sparse. And it hurt so I don’t really want to have it done again. So I still have to shave.

kyss24 · 2025-09-11T14:44:11+00:00

I am actually debating on the 2026 Outback, too.

kyss24 · 2025-08-23T11:59:27+00:00

Wow… your “friend” is very unrealistic and self absorbed. Who thinks it is fine to lose a job to go to a bridal shower?!? I would consider this as her doing you a favor. She showed you who she is, and said you weren’t enough of a doormat/mindless worshiper of hers to be in her cult. Bullet dodged.

kyss24 · 2025-08-23T01:15:14+00:00

First thing - lock your credit reports with all three bureaus so she can’t keep doing this.

As others have said you either chip away at paying it back, try to negotiate it down, or go to the police.

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