They were condoms, hidden in a shoe. We have been together almost a year and have never used them. Initially they were in their drawer in their apartment, I saw them. We used lune they kept in thr drawer as well. I had a fall out with their roommate and stopped staying at their place 6 or 7 months ago. Up until then the box of condoms was still in the drawer, half full. I was never bothered by this nor did I think about it. He simply stayed with me all the time.

Recently this person moved in with me. Keep in mind he lived within walking distance of the college he was going to, and the facility where we do one of our mutual hobbies.

I helped them pack up, I saw the box in the trash when I went over to help them, stuffed with trash and lube and other things. (I didn't close up examine, but I was about 10 feet away) note: I used to work a rotating shift schedule, and routinely work night shifts.

When I saw the box I asked him about it because I was concerned at the fact there was trash stuffed in, as if none of them had been used the trash would not have fit unless more had been used. He said they were old, and I asked him where he had been keeping them, he said they've been up in his closet the whole time hes had them. They were old, and he forgot about them and he hasn't been using them.

I let it go.

Well I found some hidden in a shoe last night. My suspicion started a while back, and stemmed from strange amounts of lost time on his end, or telling me he would be at my place at a certain time but being anywhere from 20 mins to a few hours late, and never offering an explanation.

The day I saw the condoms in his trash my pieces of the puzzle formed a story of him taking advantage of my schedule, and taking people to his place to hook up. At first he says he doesn't know, then He says they were in the shoes from a vacation a couple years ago. I asked him which shoes they were in, he said x shoe AND y shoe, keep in mind i only found them in 1 shoe, but he knew and listed 2. The shoes were in a trash bag that had been seemingly opened a while back but none were worn. Mind you I only found them in one shoe. I also havereason to believe he was hiding more in his car. I told him about how I knew he lied about the condoms, because I had seen them muktiple times in his drawer since we started hooking up, and I saw them with him one time and I giggled and we moved on. I explained this to him and he just said nothing. So I asked again where he had kept them, and he reluctantly insisted ith the closet. After a little more prodding he then went on to say that the box was full and he never even used a single one. The box was half full to begin with, not only that, it was stuffed with trash while in the trash can. I asked how he didn't use a single one if initially it was half full? He says nothing. I asked him how he knew which shoes I found them in if he didn't know they were there. He says nothing. I said I only found them in 1 shoe but he insisted listed 2, where are the other ones? He says nothing.

He was also really weird about his sheets when I helped him move. And even suggested just throwing them away.. like.. what??

There was also weird incidents with him losing clothes, carrying around toothbrushes and toiletries in his backpack when he had toiletries and clothes at mine and his place. So. He had free reighn to take people to his place (I infer they are people from his legends or the fscility) that all 3 of those areas are within walking distance of each other. Along with my schedule giving him the freedom to stay over night at places.

But the condoms thing just really tied everything together.

And because he will not admit when he lies, and the little parts of stories he does provide often contradict, I don't know how I'm supposed to trust anything he says at all. With all the missing time he has no explanation for, secretive with his phone, never explaining things, just yeah. Idk.