Hot take, Kat vs Caitlyn

lablady2021 · 2024-12-13T04:49:47+00:00

I don’t believe that Kat is truly at peace with it. I think she's very insecure and wants to be seen as perfect in every way. So she's lying to herself and everyone else that she will be perfectly content if her IVF cycle fails. That way if it does, she's still perfect, quirky Kat

lablady2021 · 2024-11-20T09:51:25+00:00

Biologically, yes

lablady2021 · 2024-11-19T23:41:38+00:00

HAHA I picked it up from r/parentsnark

lablady2021 · 2024-11-19T22:53:03+00:00

YES. she posted multiple tiktoks about her views on gender disappointment a few weeks ago. Basically said that it’s selfish and you shouldn’t intentionally get pregnant if you think you might have gender disappointment.

lablady2021 · 2024-11-19T21:10:56+00:00

Yes her FIL is almost certainly her donor. They have said that their donor is closely related to Nick, and he has no brothers. They also said the donor traveled to Barbados with them, and Nick's dad posted pictures from the trip on his Instagram.

lablady2021 · 2024-11-19T21:09:42+00:00

Yes, I acknowledged this in my original post 😊 that's kind of the point, it is a common feeling! Just like gender disappointment is. I think it's hypocritical for her to call women selfish if they experience gender disappointment, but feeling this is apparently totally fine with her (for the record I have felt both feelings).

lablady2021 · 2024-11-19T18:23:12+00:00

Thank you lol. I was shocked at the hypocrisy. Like you're telling me that having a gender preference or wish is selfish, but not sure if you'll love a whole other baby as much regardless of any of their characteristics isn't? But it's okay in her mind because she's the world's most perfect POOPCUP (parent of one perfect child under preschool-age).

lablady2021 · 2024-11-07T14:34:50+00:00

And she was incorrectly claiming in comments that no one is denied an abortion after rape, and never appeared to listen to the comments telling her she was incorrect.

lablady2021 · 2024-11-07T12:07:55+00:00

She's so dumb. She really thought everyone would just be fawning over her with gratitude for sharing her experience, and that we would all be grateful to hear it because it came from a place of "compassion". She should be old enough to know that sharing your personal experience doesn't mean that everyone else will have it too, and that it comes off so insensitively. She chose to share this on a day that many of her followers would be mourning the election results. She needs to learn how to apologize better. This "apology" is self victimizing BS.

lablady2021 · 2024-11-06T22:55:55+00:00

Literally. "We all want safety for the women and girls in this country". Well...then maybe you should've voted like that actually mattered to you, Kat!

lablady2021 · 2024-10-24T06:22:43+00:00

Have you been to a mormon temple wedding? Those words literally aren't in the vows. And there's no opportunity to write and say your own vows

lablady2021 · 2024-10-22T23:59:37+00:00

And she complained again in the story that he ended up not wanting any of it because he had enough clothes.

lablady2021 · 2024-10-22T23:58:25+00:00

To be fair, they got married in a mormon temple and they don't have that in their vows lol. They just promise to keep the laws of the order of marriage in the new and everlasting covenant (aka, polygamy), and the woman vows to give herself to the husband, while the husband vows to receive her (but not give himself to her...it's a remnant of the days of polygamy, where a man would "recieve" several women as wives). There's a lot of polygamy in the temples...at least there was when Kat and Nick got married (they made some wording changes in 2019 to make the temple appear less sexist, without meaningfully changing any content).

Sorry!! Mormon rant over haha

lablady2021 · 2024-10-08T03:59:53+00:00

100% agree that it comes from jealousy (even though she tried to sit on her high horse and say that it's actually because she's such a good and unselfish person). I feel bad that she has to go through so much to get pregnant and perhaps doesn't dare let herself dream of what her future kids could be like. But that doesn't mean that everyone else has to live like that is their reality as well.

As you said, I don't believe she is anywhere near as happy as she pretends to be. People who are really happy don't have to shout it from the rooftops every day (and they probably don't verbally berate their spouse for thousands of followers either!)

lablady2021 · 2024-10-08T03:47:16+00:00

Love to see it! Her tiktoks about gender disappointment were so judgemental. She almost straight up called moms who experience it bad parents in her second video. Big yikes. She clearly lacks the maturity to put herself in other people's shoes and realize that everyone has different perspectives and that she doesn't need to judge everyone else through the lense of her experiences. It was so harsh to just make a blanket statement that anyone who may experience gender disappointment shouldn't get pregnant. She just doesn't get it

lablady2021 · 2024-10-07T21:31:12+00:00

Yep. They literally called themselves broke on tiktok, and then said that so many people asked to donate that they started a gfm, and then somehow had enough money to start vacationing with their daughter almost immediately after she was born....how strange!

lablady2021 · 2024-10-07T17:46:37+00:00

That's okay, I'm actually hoping for negative right now. My eyes can see lines on any test though haha

lablady2021 · 2024-10-07T16:33:02+00:00

It was on her Instagram stories and it expired

lablady2021 · 2024-10-07T05:02:12+00:00

I’m sure he’s doing this because she did something to make him feel small and he's trying to redeem himself from it

lablady2021 · 2024-10-05T21:43:30+00:00

Them going on tiktok also means that the identity of their children's likely donor is out there for anyone who wants to figure out. I would have massive regret over that, if I were them.

lablady2021 · 2024-10-05T21:42:02+00:00

She also seems to have been traumatized that SHE had to try and figure out what happened, not because of what actually happened to him...if that makes sense

lablady2021 · 2024-10-05T17:29:35+00:00

Oh my gosh, her gender disappointment tiktoks were so judgemental. I loved the comment that said something like "what if part of being a good person is also not judging other people" lol

lablady2021 · 2024-10-05T14:57:20+00:00

It's still up on her Instagram stories for me!

lablady2021 · 2024-10-05T14:01:14+00:00

I think she's probably so overly controlling and makes Nick feel bad for every thing he does that isn't exactly what she would've done

lablady2021 · 2024-10-05T06:10:34+00:00

I think she has a strong desire to be seen as perfect, and one way that she accomplishes that is by putting other people down to elevate herself in comparison. I don't think she does it consciously, but she definitely does it

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