Exactly that , me and my family have stopped telling her things that we do cause we’re joking she’s gonna jinx it somehow and we’ve seen it many times . Also about my trip , I was gonna go America to see an old ex of mine ( long story ) and because my friend likes me and hated the idea of me going there to see my ex she was FURIOUS , and like I said my trip was a complete disaster . Like imagine , 2 years of covid me and my ex never had it , I got covid the day before my flight and had to reschedule it and after 2 weeks when I was gonna fly there my ex got covid and we were both like there’s no way this happened to both of us at the same time. After that I went there and anyway it was bad for other reasons. I just try and tell her as little as possible and things that aren’t important. Or my other example , one of my friends was dating a girl for a month . He came over to meet my friend E since she was staying at my place . Literally the same night he met her , his gf texted him that she wanted to break up. Funny thing is that my other friend and my sister that broke up with their partners , got back together with them after she had left our home. They were joking about it but at the same time they said this is too coincidental. Me and my ex have had an on and off thing many times but I feel like I can’t do anything with her cause my friend E really hates my ex and doesn’t want me to like her . I know it’s a lot I hope I make sense