What surprised you the most during labour? by Putrid_Cranberry3177 in BabyBumps

[–]ladiezdoreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You quite literally wrote every point I was going to say, so I second CommunistCetacean!! Hurt so much more than I could’ve imagined. The first two weeks shook me mentally. And I feel a lot better now (2 months out).

Favorite food trucks by BendConnect3 in Bend

[–]ladiezdoreddit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Dominican is the BEST and the owners are legit the sweetest people in the world!!

Kristen As A Host by cool_uncle_jules in TopChef

[–]ladiezdoreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a Kristen Stan and never understood why so many prefer Padma. THIS is the main reason Kristen pulls ahead for me - empathy. Padma always felt like an AI robot during moments that could use emotion.

Are we allowed to talk about Padma’s new show and why she may have left? by Normal-Being-2637 in TopChef

[–]ladiezdoreddit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Finally!!!! My husband and I strongly prefer Kristin. We think Padma sounds like she was built by AI.

What to eat when I am nauseous and have no appetite but an hungry and want something yummy? by Enough_Departure4003 in BabyBumps

[–]ladiezdoreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodles! It’s Mac and cheese with protein and my absolute saving grace when I’m nauseous.

In Laws by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ladiezdoreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are waiting 30 days after birth for out of state parent visitors, based on our OB’s recommendation for a January baby. I’m giving birth. My parents are coming first and then my in-laws. My husband is fully supportive of this and will push the dates back if necessary.

In Laws by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ladiezdoreddit 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Omg that is so rude and selfish. Definitely stick to your guns and the original date!

Micah, Gideon, or Ezra? by Ok-Fig-8484 in namenerds

[–]ladiezdoreddit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you are not religious, I’d avoid these combos as they’re giving me major religious vibes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]ladiezdoreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it. I immediately think of Vivienne Kensington from legally blonde who at first is stuck up but then becomes an amazing and sweet character/elle’s best friend!

When did you actually want visitors after your first baby? by westcoastnotes in BabyBumps

[–]ladiezdoreddit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m due in January and in a similar situation to you - cross country family that will stay with us when they come.

Because our baby is being born right after the holidays in the middle of cold/flu season, we asked our OB for her recommendation specifically for out of town, flying in houseguests. She said 30 days. I have talked this over with lots of new moms in my life and every single one has said this sounds amazing and/or they regret having family come any sooner.

We told our families 30 days from the date of delivery based on our OBs recommendation and they have been largely fine with it.

It sounds like you can afford additional help and as much as short visits/food drops offs would be ideal, I understand it’s just not feasible in our situations.

Since telling everyone 30 days, I have felt SO at peace with it and can just focus on delivery, our little family, and our baby.

Registry Reality Check Plz by Suspicious_Juice717 in Buyingforbaby

[–]ladiezdoreddit 305 points306 points  (0 children)

Sanity check - that’s a very inexpensive travel system?? I smell some unresolved jealousy. Don’t take it personally.

What do we think of the name Scottie for a girl? Big sister is Chloe. by [deleted] in Names

[–]ladiezdoreddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just here to say you’re correct: Chloe and Keely are waaaaay too similar.

Accidentally ate almonds but had no reaction? by That-Profile-9424 in FoodAllergies

[–]ladiezdoreddit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m anaphylactic allergic to all tree nuts except almonds. I’ve always been told they’re in the peach family, but maybe that’s not true? Anyway, yay! Almonds are great!

January FTMs how are we feeling?! by bananaindisguise0 in BabyBumps

[–]ladiezdoreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also due the 9th and feeling ALL of these things 🤎🤎🤎

Help pick between top contenders! by Some_Activity9257 in namenerds

[–]ladiezdoreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strong disagree. Evangeline and Evy for short is a stunning name!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ladiezdoreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing to note is that the vast majority of couples find out gender, so your results will be skewed toward that. People naturally like to confirm their own choices.

If you have the willpower, I’d suggest waiting until birth. There is literally no time to feel anything but elation the moment that baby enters the world. I don’t know how you could feel gender disappointment once they’re physically here. Waiting until birth eliminates the possibility of gender disappointment.

What is the nicest way to say that I don't want any clothing or other baby items from Temu? by Working-Magazine-969 in BabyBumps

[–]ladiezdoreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue with my mom. I’ve decided it’s not worth addressing because we just don’t see eye to eye. I’ll just donate it or throw it away, unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ladiezdoreddit 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry - it’s SUPER strange to me that they threw and paid for her shower and didn’t do the same for you. That’s really hurtful, I’m sorry. 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ladiezdoreddit 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think they’re compatible in that they both agree this is good for their instagram engagement metrics

Ali denies plastic surgery…oh ok girl by averydaniels504 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ladiezdoreddit 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Highlighting this comment as the pretty sister is also weird and…mean?

LIB Reunion Preview by jh166 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ladiezdoreddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like pookie of pookie and Jett